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Kinktober Updates: Before I share my thoughts on the importance of male chastity, there are some updates on the site I’d like to point out:

  1. This week’s drawing – one hour with our own Mizz Geena – has been very popular! Make sure to enter the drawing before the deadline for your chance to either learn from, or submit to, the amazing Mizz Geena!
  2. Another Kinktober freebie – Mizz Geena and Miss Autumn are providing free “dick ratings.” I don’t really know how they are putting up with looking at so many of those things, but they both assured me they are still taking submissions.
  3. Check out the interview with a real life FLR couple. Have you ever been brave enough to make a bet with your spouse, with the outcome being total submission?
  4. Our poetry section has a new writer – one of our readers, “Aristotle” has been providing us with some wonderful Femdom Sonnets. I’m enjoying reading his words of submission as we publish his works throughout the month.
  5. I was inspired to challenge the entire team to write their own Halloween Femdom Poems. I’ve already heard about one little birdie sneaking help from Aristotle…
  6. On Monday we’ll announce the next drawing – a $100 gift card with one of our sponsors!

Locked for Service: Why Chastity is Essential for Submissive Men

Dear Readers,

As someone who has lived the femdom lifestyle for many years, I can confidently say that being a keyholder transforms your power over a submissive man. Even the most submissive men gain a new perspective when they are locked in chastity, knowing that their freedom is solely under your control.

For service subs, especially younger men, I believe chastity is crucial during their training years. It keeps them from being distracted by their own urges and allows them to focus on serving you, making them better subs. Using release as a reward helps reinforce your dynamic and builds a stronger relationship by showing them that their pleasure comes only when you decide.

But chastity isn’t just for service subs. Any submissive man should experience being locked up, even if it’s only occasionally. It’s a powerful reminder of your control and dominance over him. Putting your husband in a cage—even for short periods—will make him feel your power in a very real way. And what better time to introduce or reintroduce chastity than during Locktober?

So, whether it’s for a few days or the entire month, take this opportunity to explore the power of locking him up. Trust me, he’ll feel the difference—and so will you.

Warmest regards,
Madam Nora Sinclair
Editor-in-Chief, FemdomU Magazine

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Madam Nora Sinclair

Madam Nora Sinclair, founder and editor-in-chief of FemdomU Magazine, holds a powerful presence in the world of BDSM. Revered for her commanding demeanor and unwavering self-assurance, she has established a reputation for enforcing strict discipline while also promoting fairness and prioritizing the well-being of her submissives. Her dedication to guiding others in the Femdom community led to the creation of the online version of FemdomU Magazine, offering informative and entertaining content that celebrates all forms of Female Dominance. View Full Profile

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