Taking Pegging Outdoors for a Discreet and Thrilling Adventure
My husband Cody and I have been exploring the exhilarating world of pegging for years now, but recently, we’ve decided to take our adventures a step further—outside the confines of our bedroom. The thrill of engaging in pegging in public adds a delicious layer of excitement and risk, heightening the pleasure for both of us. If you’re intrigued by the idea of public pegging but want to keep it discreet and respectful of others, I’m here to share some of our favorite tips and experiences.
Choosing the Right Gear
Wearable Strapon: Investing in a high-quality, wearable strapon that fits snugly and doesn’t make much noise when in use is crucial. Some models are designed to look like undergarments and can be worn discreetly under clothes, allowing for spontaneous experiences as you explore the outdoors.
Quiet and Discreet Toys: Opt for dildos made from materials that minimize noise, like silicone, which is not only quiet but also safe and easy to clean. A smaller, more compact model can also be more practical for public play.
Selecting the Perfect Location
Remote Nature Spots: For those who enjoy the great outdoors, remote hiking trails or camping sites can offer both privacy and a scenic backdrop for your pegging session. The seclusion provides a safe space to explore each other freely, surrounded by the beauty of nature.
Private Areas in Public Spaces: Look for secluded areas in otherwise public spaces, such as dark corners of parks after dusk or unused parts of parking lots. Always ensure you’re not visible to passersby and are within the boundaries of the law.
Renting Facilities: Some cities have clubs or facilities that offer private, themed rooms for adult activities. Renting a space for an hour or two can give you the public thrill without the risks associated with truly public spaces.
Techniques and Tips
Start Slow: If you’re new to public pegging, start with subtle play. Cody and I began with wearing the strapon under our clothes while out on dates, gradually building up to more direct contact in discreet locations.
Communication is Key: Use non-verbal signals or discreet whispering to communicate during the act, especially in public settings. Establish a signal for “stop” or “something’s wrong” to quickly address any discomfort or potential risk of being noticed.
Aftercare: Public play can be more stressful and risky, making aftercare even more essential. After your adventure, find a private moment to reconnect and discuss the experience, ensuring it was enjoyable and consensual for both parties.
Legal and Safety Considerations
Understand the Law: Familiarize yourself with local laws regarding public indecency and lewd behavior. The goal is to keep your activities discreet and not expose unsuspecting individuals to your private moments.
Plan for Quick Disengagement: Always have an escape plan. This means being able to quickly disengage from the activity and normalize your appearance without causing suspicion or alarm.
Personal Experiences
Cody and I have found that the thrill of pegging in public can really spice up our relationship. One memorable evening, we ventured out to a secluded part of our local beach after sunset. The sound of the waves mixed with the excitement of our covert escapade made it one of the most exhilarating experiences of our relationship. However, we always make sure our activities are safe, consensual, and discreet, keeping the thrill without crossing boundaries.
Is public pegging legal?
It depends on your location. Most places have strict laws against public indecency. The safest approach is to choose secluded spots where you won’t be noticed, or to rent private facilities that allow adult activities.
How can we stay discreet during public pegging?
Choose a snug, quiet strapon, select hidden or private areas, and plan an escape strategy. Keep communication subtle, using hand signals or whispers to stay connected without drawing attention.
What gear is best for public pegging?
A wearable strapon that looks like underwear is ideal. Opt for silicone dildos, which are quiet and body-safe. Compact sizes also help keep things discreet and manageable.
How important is aftercare with public pegging?
Very important. The mix of risk and adrenaline can leave both partners needing reassurance. Take time afterward to reconnect, talk through the experience, and ensure both of you felt safe and excited.
What if we want the thrill without breaking the law?
Look into adult clubs, private dungeons, or rentable themed rooms. These offer the sense of being “out in public” while still keeping your play consensual, safe, and legal.
Public Pegging – a Thrilling Dimension to Femdom Fun
Exploring pegging in public can add a thrilling new dimension to your sexual adventures. It requires careful planning, respect for others, and a keen awareness of your surroundings. With the right approach, you can enjoy the excitement of public play while ensuring it remains a private pleasure. So, why not take your adventures outside the bedroom and into the wild? It’s a daring way to deepen your connection and explore new boundaries together.
Agree all. A standard practice here. Boys are pegged at every lawn party. To maintain the boys properly they must be pegged reguarly. Because we’re free use, impromptu is always in order – like Jeannie taking her wolf penis to krissi when he was on the sawhorse for punishment this spring. Sometimes we schedule events for more organized fun, like the lineup a couple weeks ago concluding Orgasm Day. The boys’ assholes are great training aids to coach and develop our friends and guests. They show what can be expected of boys. Elastic and always accomodating.
Also, really like the photo here. My group has been fisting since spring and I mentioned that, on a whim at Orgasm Day’s finale, I invited Katie to stick it to krissi for our guests to see. His goal was to take her by Thanksgiving and accomplished it before Labor Day. Good boy!! We did it with him sitting, Janice and Mollie holding his legs, spread. It went so smoothly (and we were all so wet) that I told Rita to try. She’s 5ft 9 inches tall – bigger than Katie. He was to take her by New Years’. She did, saying to him for all to hear, “I’m gonna tickle your little tummy; from inside!!” She got all the way in, to the elbow. Really GOOD BOY!! He whimpered some. The audience couldn’t believe what they were seeing.