Domming Couples – The Unicorn Experience
by Queen Ketzeleh | Sep 4, 2025 |
Some of my favorite scenes have been with couples. There is a unique power in guiding two lovers at once, stepping into their intimacy, and holding space for their exploration.
What draws me in is the intimacy. Couples share something sacred that I don’t have in my own life. Outside of the intimacy I share as a mother, it is something I miss. To be invited into that bond feels rare and intoxicating. It’s not just about being part of their play. It’s about the small moments, such as seeing the way they look at each other, the quiet tenderness when they curl up together afterward, and the way they know each other’s bodies so well. To be allowed into that space is a gift.
The play carries its own electricity. I love orchestrating their energy, deciding what happens next, guiding each body toward the other. Sometimes I join in, and other times I sit back in a chair, running the scene with only my words. There is a deep power in shaping the current of intimacy between two people already so connected. I become the spark that ignites the fire they hold for each other. And when their energy finally turns toward me, when they pour their attention and affection back into my body, it feels decadent, abundant, and exactly right for a Queen.
I adore working with couples who come to me not only to play, but also to learn. A particular couple I played with several times wanted guidance on consent, negotiation, and ways to bring more power and play into their relationship. Our time together was only 4-5 sessions, but it lit something inside me. I realized how much I love teaching couples, not only showing them what’s possible in the moment, but giving them tools they can carry into their lives.
Experiences like this are what inspire me to consider sex and intimacy coaching. Because what excites me isn’t just the play—it’s the connection. It’s helping people unlock something new in themselves and with each other, and witnessing the transformation that happens when intimacy deepens. Every experience reminds me how much I want to keep exploring this path, not just as a Domme, but as a guide.
Oh yes! I guess I never thought about being a couple guided by a Domme. I without a doubt find this to be a great potential for us as a couple. The opportunity to learn and grow can never be overlooked. Thank you for opening my eyes Queen Kelzeh.
I suspect this might be one of the ways my wife would take a step forward not into control but exploration and confidence building.
I guess the question id need to work out would be where would one even begin in starting a process like this – I mean I’m aware that the first step is conversation, food for thought for sure.
In my experience, it begins with connection, but also with exploring energy with the couple. My practice is to spend time with them, break bread, hear their stories, start to understand who they are, and find out where they want to grow.
Excellent blog! It really is so fun getting to play with a couple who is open and into each other. Thank you for sharing, and here’s to many, many more experiences such as this in your future. I think you could make an excellent intimacy coach!
Thank you, Mistress Heather! I have really been considering it.