So Annie made a new friend, Nancy, and Nancy is married to Greg. Apparently, somewhere along the way the conversation turned to pegging. Greg has wanted to try it, but Nancy has been hesitant. Not because she was opposed to the idea, but because she was worried she’d do something wrong, hurt him, or discover five minutes into the experience that she absolutely hated being on that side of things.

So Annie did what any reasonable Domme would do. She offered to give Nancy a demonstration.

And that’s how I ended up naked and bent over the back of our couch while Annie demonstrated the basics on me. Nancy got to watch how Annie approached it, ask questions, and see how the two people involved communicate about what feels right and what doesn’t. I’ve been on the receiving end enough times that Annie and I have a pretty good rhythm, so apparently I was now an instructional aid. I swear, my usefulness around this house keeps expanding into areas I never anticipated.

But Annie wasn’t satisfied with just demonstrating. After a while, she started encouraging Nancy to give it a try herself. Nancy was nervous, I was certainly aware that someone completely new was about to practice on me, and Annie stood right there coaching her through it. Eventually Nancy relaxed, stopped worrying so much about whether she was doing everything perfectly, and started getting the hang of it.

And damn, did she get the hang of it.

All that worrying about whether she’d enjoy pegging Greg apparently wasn’t necessary. Nancy discovered that she really liked being the one in control, and she became increasingly confident as the lesson continued. Eventually it was me who had to announce that the demonstration had been sufficiently thorough and I was ready to be done.

So Greg, you’re welcome. Your wife came over worried that she wouldn’t know what she was doing. She left knowing that not only can she do it, she apparently really enjoys it. Good luck, buddy.