To My Wife

There’s a lot I could say about the things you’ve done for me over the years, but what I’m most grateful for is the way you’ve accepted parts of me that you don’t necessarily share yourself.

You’re not into the Femdom lifestyle, yet you’ve been willing to let me explore this side of myself and participate on this site. You’ve never had to embrace it as your own to understand that it matters to me. That acceptance means more than I probably tell you.

You’ve also been incredibly generous in humoring some of my more unusual interests. You’ve come along way from hesitantly lightly slapping my penis and balls, to recently discovering how fun it is to knee them while we are in bed. I appreciate those moments not simply because I enjoy them, but because they’re another example of you being willing to meet me halfway and share something with me simply because you know it makes me happy. I never want to take that willingness, trust, or generosity for granted.

And I’ve especially appreciated the opportunities you’ve given me to serve you. I know they may seem modest from your perspective, but being able to serve you in whatever capacity you’re comfortable allowing has meant a great deal to me. There’s something deeply satisfying about being able to do something for you, make your life a little easier, or simply make you happy. I treasure those moments because they’re something you choose to give me.

Thank you for giving me room to be honest about who I am. Thank you for trusting me. Thank you for occasionally humoring my weirdness, even when it isn’t your thing. And thank you for letting me serve you in the ways you’re willing to accept.

Most of all, thank you for being my wife and for loving the whole person I am.

I don’t take any of that for granted. I’m incredibly lucky to have you.