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Orgasm Control is a potent and all-consuming tool utilized in femdom sessions to assert absolute control and dominance over her submissive. With every touch and tease, he is brought to the brink of orgasm only to have it cruelly snatched away, leaving him throbbing with unfulfilled desire. This sadistic technique not only inflicts physical agony but also plays mind games, intensifying the pleasure and pain. It's no wonder why this method is a popular choice among skilled femdoms who relish in their power over others.

Edging

The essence of orgasm denial lies in the tantalizing concept of edging, also known as Tease & Denial. Edging is a devious game of bringing him to the brink of ecstasy, only to abruptly halt and deny his release. This wickedly delightful practice can be repeated over and over again, drawing out the anticipation and intensifying the pleasure with each teasing pause.

Ruined Orgasm

The idea of a "ruined orgasm" revolves around deliberately denying a male submissive a fully satisfying release. This can be achieved through various methods, such as bringing him to the edge of climax and then abruptly stopping all stimulation, resulting in a partial release but not a true orgasm. For more sadistic individuals, there are even more excruciating techniques, like slapping his exposed cock and balls right at the peak of pleasure, turning his ecstasy into agony. Another approach is to pinch his throbbing member at the moment of ejaculation, disrupting the natural flow and causing a frustrating and unsatisfying climax. This practice can serve as both punishment for disobedience or as a means of intensifying the sub's desire and arousal.

ORGASM DENIAL

One of the most powerful aspects of orgasm control is when a dominant partner denies their submissive's release entirely. This tantalizing practice, known as "orgasm denial," can be used as a form of sadistic fun or punishment. In this scenario, the Domme holds complete power over the sub's pleasure, withholding his ultimate release until she deems it appropriate. It becomes an act of mind control, as the sub's sole focus becomes pleasing his Domme and earning the privilege of his orgasm. For truly sadistic Dommes, they may withhold their approval for hours, even extending beyond the session and lasting for days on end. The anticipation and longing for release can build to a frenzied state, making his eventual orgasm all the more intense.

BLUE BALLS

The effects of prolonged edging and orgasm denial are torturous for the sub, as sexual tension and arousal mount to excruciating levels in his genitals. The constant agony is known as blue balls, a condition that leaves the sub's testicles swollen and tender from being denied release. A sadistic femdom takes pleasure in intensifying this suffering by unleashing brutal blows and crushing grips on the his vulnerable and swolen balls.

CUM COUNTDOWN

A tantalizing technique often used in orgasm denial is known as "cum countdown." The Domme sets a specific time limit, heightening the pressure and urgency for her submissive to achieve his release before it's too late. As she slowly counts down, from ten to one, in a seductive and teasing tone, he races against the clock to shoot his load before being denied. The mounting anticipation and pressure can be overwhelming, leaving the submissive desperate for release. And for those who are able to reach their climax in time, the satisfaction is incredibly rewarding. But for those who fall short, the added element of humiliation can add an unexpected twist of excitement to the experience.

POST ORGASM TORTURE

But the femdom experience doesn't always come to an end with orgasm. In fact, it can continue long after the sub has released. This intense and tantalizing part of the experience is known as "post orgasm torture," where the sub's cock and balls are stimulated even after he’s cum. It's a delicate dance between pleasure and pain, often used as punishment for being too quick to shoot his load or as a form of teasing and denial.

The domme may use various tools to continue the stimulation, such as a vibrating toy on the sensitive cock and balls or her nails lightly scratching and teasing the area. She can also simply continue jerking his cock, even picking up speed after he shoots his load. He’ll be left left in a constant state of arousal and agony, his pleasure quickly evolving into pain, escalating with each touch. Some men have even been known to achieve an additional ejaculations during this torturous period, describing it as painfully euphoric. It's a mind-bending experience that leaves both the sub and domme satisfied in their dominance and submission dynamic.

MILKING

Milking, a cruel and torturous practice in the world of Femdom, involves relentless manipulation and stimulation of a submissive male until he is drained completely, both physically and mentally. The Domme takes pleasure in dominating the male's body, using techniques like stimulating his vulnerable erogenous areas or restraining him to ensure complete submission. Specialized tools are utilized to maximize torment, constantly stroking and teasing the male's genitalia until he is reduced to a quivering state. Despite enduring this humiliating experience, the sub understands his role as a mere instrument for the Domme's sadistic enjoyment.

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Orgasm control is a powerful and multifaceted technique in femdom sessions. It involves a combination of edging, ruined orgasms, orgasm denial, blue balls, cum countdown, and post orgasm torture to exert control and dominance over a submissive. It requires a strong understanding of a sub's desires and limits, as well as the ability to read their body language and respond accordingly. When done correctly, orgasm denial can be an intense and exhilarating experience for both the domme and the sub, creating a powerful dynamic between them.

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  • You may want to explore bondage techniques so he's tied down while you control his orgasms.
  • Orgasm Control is an important part of Discipline and Punishment of your submissive.
  • An ultimate tool for controlling when he cums? Lock him in chastity and you've denied his ability to give himself an orgasm when you're not around!
  • Teaching him to control his own orgasms to maintain an erection should be part of any Submissive Training agenda.
  • Orgasm control and denial is a great way to humiliate your sub.
  • Ultimate Edging Experience? Give him JOI (jerk off instruction) and make him edge himself!

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