Elevens Reflection
by eleven | Sep 30, 2025 |
There have been a couple of posts here recently such as this that make me take a moment and think. Think about my time at FemdomU so far, how it has helped, changed, shaped me into a better, healthier, more aware submissive version of me.
Not only has this site been a wealth of information, that is relatable but it’s based on members personal lives and experiences. But reading the posts and articles going up daily made me want to try and step into this world with both feet and was what gave me the confidence to apply as a volunteer.
My personal experiences and journey to this point are different from many others here, but most likely not alone – by this I mean that interest, exploration, attempts to learn more about Femdom as a whole have been in isolation and ultimately on my own.
But after reading this post it dawned on me how welcoming the family here have been. They have been so open, welcoming and honestly so easy to open up to it’s been hard keeping up and adjusting.
I’ve learnt to accept myself for who I am, all parts of me, to understand that I must look after my own health as being unhealthy would prevent me from serving those I submit to.
I want to keep challenging myself, try new things, be pushed that little further each time and not just think about limits but tip toe nearer to them. All of this is possible due to the support, training and instructions given by all the Dommes here.
My goal is to serve not only those here, but to take what I read and learn, then put it into practice at home too even if my wife isn’t yet a knowing member of this world – doesn’t mean I can’t still serve her.
I’m looking forward to what’s around the corner here too, hoping I can continue to grow and continue to give back to those that have been so welcoming to me.
I do have such good boys!
Very insighful, and while your journey is your own, I know there are many others out there reading along, in similar situations. Watching your growth as you focus on ‘self’ and becoming the best man you can be has been very rewarding to this Domme. While I hold the leash to your submissive training, it’s your attitude and consistent effort that is making a difference.
Keep it up!
Thank you Mizz Geena. That was my thinking reading other posts.
We all have different journeys to get us to ‘today’ but that doesn’t mean tomorrow’s choices have to be the same.