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Introduction to the FemdomU community

by | Dec 5, 2025 | 20 comments

Hello Everyone, My name is Thanuj, and I am joining the FemdomU community as a volunteer service sub, who genuinely wants to learn, refine myself and serve with intention. I’m here because I believe submission is not an escape from life, but a way of shaping myself — a discipline that reaches into how I carry my body, how I respond to authority, and how I present my character.

I come with humility, a willingness to listen, and a sincere desire to grow under guidance. My goal is to become a submissive man who is not just eager, but dependable… not just compliant, but composed… not just hopeful, but useful.

FemdomU feels like the right place to be challenged, evaluated, and molded into something better — and I am grateful for the opportunity to learn within this structure.

5 Ways I Plan to Improve as a Submissive Man.

Submission isn’t a hobby. It’s a discipline — a curriculum of the mind, the body, and the instinct to yield. If I expect to be molded, used, evaluated, or even noticed within these halls, I need to elevate myself. Below is my improvement plan:

 

1. I Will Train My Body to Respond With Immediate Obedience

A truly useful submissive reacts without hesitation — the body moves before the mind catches up. I want to cultivate that readiness: a quiet, conditioned thrill that climbs up my spine whenever authority is present. When a command is given, I don’t want to think about obeying; I want my muscles to react automatically, almost eagerly.

2. I Will Sharpen My Sensual Awareness

A submissive man should feel the world more intensely — the tone of a woman’s voice, the weight of a gaze, the implication carried in a subtle gesture. I want to become more sensitive to the charged atmosphere of dominance. To let instructions, corrections, and even silence stir something deep within me. This isn’t weakness; it’s trained emotional attunement.

3. I Will Develop Emotional Restraint and Surrender

There’s something irresistible about holding myself together while willingly giving myself over. I want to master that tension — the kind that makes submission purposeful. When I’m corrected, evaluated, or pushed to my limits, I want my composure to make me more appealing, not more fragile.

4. I Will Serve With Precision — Not Just Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is basic. Precision is magnetic. I want to take pride in the way I execute even the simplest tasks, giving them a deliberate, attentive quality. Whether I’m presenting myself, following a protocol, or completing an assignment, the goal is to transform compliance into something artful.

5. I Will Clarify My Submissive Identity and Offer It Unapologetically

Nothing is more striking in a submissive man than certainty — the knowledge of what type of submissive he is and the confidence to embody it. My goal is to refine my identity: the desires that drive me, the roles that challenge me, and the kind of authority that makes me yield instinctively. When I know myself, I can offer myself more completely.

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Thanuj
Thanuj joins us from Vancouver after completing his MBA, ready to explore his submissive side as a new volunteer model. Easygoing and curious, he enjoys PC gaming, friends, and thrillers. Under Mizz Geena’s guidance, he is eager to learn, follow structure, and grow into a well trained good boy. View Full Profile

20 Comments

  1. duckie

    welcome to the team! great blog post man!

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    • Thanuj

      Thank you so much! I’m really excited to be here and even more grateful for the warm welcome. I’m glad you enjoyed the post — sharing my growth as a submissive has already been such a rewarding experience, and I’m looking forward to learning even more from everyone in this community.

      Reply
  2. Mistress Heather

    Welcome to the team. It could be quite beneficial to have a sub with an MBA – I’m sure once you’ve been trained, you will be in high demand.

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    • Thanuj

      Thank you, Mistress Heather. I truly appreciate your welcome and your confidence. Hearing that from you means a great deal. I know I still have much to learn, and I’m committed to showing discipline, humility, and willingness as I grow in this space. If my skills can be of service, I’ll be grateful for any opportunity to prove myself under your guidance.

      Reply
  3. Zeek

    Hey, wqelcome aboard. Have fun and good luck!

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    • Thanuj

      Thanks, Zeek! Really appreciate the welcome. I’m looking forward to learning a lot and doing my best here. It’s great to be part of this community.

      Reply
  4. Miss Autumn

    Another new boy to play with, this is getting fun!

    Welcome to the team, thanuj. Mizz Geena told me that I’m going to enjoy playing with you, and mentioned you have a very attractive backend. Well, I’m going to find out – look for a modeling command in your dashboard.

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    • Thanuj

      Thank you, Miss Autumn. I see the modeling command in my dashboard and will follow it carefully. I’m honored by your attention and will do my best to please you.

      Reply
  5. mr.sub

    Hey bud, welcome to the team. Just do better then me and you’ll be great! 🙂

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    • Thanuj

      Thanks, man! Appreciate the welcome. I’ll do my best, and hopefully I can learn from you along the way too. Glad to be part of the team with you.

      Reply
  6. Mrs. Annie

    I’ve heard you’re a good boy – I look forward to finding out just how good!
    I hope you’re ready to make yourself useful and strip – we have lots planned for you 🙂

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    • Thanuj

      Thank you, Mrs Annie. I’m truly honored by your attention. I promise I’ll do everything I can to show you I’m a good boy, just like you’ve heard. I’m ready to be useful for you and follow whatever you have planned for me. I won’t disappoint you.

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    • Thanuj

      Absolutely! It’s great connecting with another new sub. Excited to grow in this community together.

      Reply
  7. levi

    Ahh, more manmeat for the ladies! I’ve heard a bit about what Mizz Geena has in mind for you … good luck, have fun!

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    • Thanuj

      Haha, thank you, Levi! Now you’ve got me even more curious… I honestly can’t imagine what Mizz Geena has planned for me! Whatever it is, I’m sure it’ll be quite the initiation.

      Reply
  8. BoxingGloveLove

    I like the way you think, bro.
    You know we’re here to serve the matriarchy, and it shows in your writing, I dig it.

    Welcome to the team!

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    • Thanuj

      Thanks, man — I really appreciate the warm welcome.
      Feels good to step into a space where serving the matriarchy isn’t just understood, it’s shared.
      I’m glad to be here, learning the ropes and doing my part with the rest of the team

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  9. eleven

    Welcome Thanuj, great intro post sounds like your going to be off to a great start.

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    • Thanuj

      Thanks! Glad to be here and ready to contribute.

      Reply

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