To Lube or Not to Lube?
by Autumn | Dec 18, 2025 |
Let’s be serious for a second. You have to use lube.
I don’t care how tough the sub thinks he is, or how much I want him to feel every inch of impact when I drive my cock into his ass. The truth is, no lube just doesn’t work. The anus doesn’t self-lubricate, and I’m not sliding in with some little beginner dildo. I’m using a cock that is bigger, thicker, and meaner than anything he’s ever taken.
That said, if I really want to punish or humiliate a sub, I make him lube my cock with his mouth. He gets on his knees, opens wide, and sucks it like he’s getting ready to deep-throat the real thing. He drools, chokes, gags a little. I tell him to get it nice and wet, because his ass is going to take every inch.
Does spit actually do the job? Rarely. And he knows that. That’s what makes it so much fun. Watching the panic rise as he realizes what’s about to happen.
But I’m not an idiot. I still squeeze out a bit of lube when his face isn’t looking, maybe behind his back while I’m rubbing the head of the cock against his hole.
Why? Because I want to fuck him, not tear him open. I want him writhing in pain because he’s being used, stretched, broken… not because I was careless.
Lube is not about kindness. It’s about control.
So yes, lube is a must. But that doesn’t mean I won’t let him think he’s taking it raw. It adds to the fear, the obedience, the sweet mix of dread and arousal I see in their eyes just before I push in.
That’s the moment I live for.
Saliva is good lubricant. But at the beginning a proper bought one is more prudent. Once man-pussies develop a little, then spit can suffice. Coverage is still important; so if using a big long dildo make sure he lubes its full length. And pull out frequently to re-lube it. Or have another boy lube it … “troy, how does krissi’s asshole taste today?”