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What should I do? I find myself in a rather intriguing yet perplexing situation. I have a devout worshiper, a man whose loyalty has never wavered. He attends every event I host, spends a considerable portion of his vacation days on my sprawling estate, and has been a steadfast presence in my life for over a decade. He’s a mature 35-year-old, having fathered a child in his youth at just 15. That child, now a 20-year-old young man, recently approached me with offerings of devotion. Apparently, he grew up with a deep admiration for me, having watched his father’s unwavering dedication, and now wishes to become one of my followers.
This young man has done everything right in his pursuit of my attention and, let me tell you, he is quite the sight to behold. Just as handsome as his father but with a physique that speaks of hours spent sculpting his body in the gym. However, this presents a unique dilemma—if I accept him, I would have both father and son in my circle of worshipers.
Life on my estate is characterized by its open and uninhibited nature. When my worshipers visit, they are expected to shed their clothes and be available for anything I desire. To clarify, I frequently engage them in sexual activities. The thought of having both father and son serving my pleasures in equal measure, witnessing each other’s acts of devotion, is both tantalizing and potentially unsettling. I am torn between the allure of such a scenario and the possibility that it might be too unconventional.
I am open to guidance on this matter and welcome advice from both Ladies and subs alike. Please share your thoughts in the comments.
Certainly alluring; but the down side could be VERY DOWN. A somewhat similar issue in my group, not with sons (yet) but with daughters. Two couples have daughters who’ve just entered the workplace, after college, and another has one who will graduate in May and another a sophomore. For years we’ve talked about if , how, and when to introduce them to our lifestyle, which is so rewarding. We don’t know the answer, and have consequently done nothing. Most unsettling for us is a daughter and her father present together (not your problem). My acquaintances (mother and her young 20s daughter) from my and Krissi’s last hike, who want to join us again in a couple weeks, offers the possibility we might one day have a mother & daughter in our group. Would we do this and NOT include our children? Would we include daughters and not sons, or vic versa?
I’m keenly interested in raising a new generation of Dommes but in this situation can’t reconcile pros and cons. Maybe the slope is simply too slippery.
Thank you for your input Meghan. I agree with issues of children and I’m thankful I don’t quite have to navigate that dilemma. I have strong beliefs about when young men should be taught to worship women, but not a viewpoint necessarily shared by the Magazine so I won’t dive further. Perhaps more important – I am not interested in training anyone at this point in my life.
Best of luck with the mother / daughter combination. I think it is wonderful that they can share the experience!
I think Meghan made a valid point about the potential downside. Seems like a challenging line to walk.
However, one big difference I see here is you didn’t make a decision to introduce this to his son – it sounds like maybe it was part of his upbringing. I know after my one visit to see you in Eugene, I’ve tried to be very open to the myriad of relationships that work for different people. I’d say communicate first – talk to both, find out what their comfort level is. I’d think if your original worshipper, the father, doesn’t want it to happen, you need to honor that. But if he’s open, discuss some hard limits. Maybe they don’t participate at the same time? Can you stager their schedules perhaps?
Thank you Heather! Wise advice indeed.
I think about your visit often, and eagerly await your next! You’re welcome to bring Cody, I think he’d enjoy the farm, don’t you?
Agree with Heather. It is a big difference that junior asked. So maybe you can map a path through the minefield.
Great points so far. As Meghan puts it – you’ll have to map a path through a minefield!
I think it’s worth noting that while such a situation wouldn’t work for me, that doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work for you. Femdom includes a break from norms, and we should always be open to pushing boundaries and new experiences. That said, I think I agree with Heather’s solution of accepting worship from each, just separately?
Thank you Geena!