Obedience, Humiliation, and Semen Control in the Jar Calendar Game

Dear Mizz Geena,

I have always been what my wife calls a “big cummer.” My morning ejaculations especially tend to be heavy, and she decided she wanted to make use of that in a new way. Now, every day, I am required to cum into a glass jar she keeps in the bedroom. She writes the date on the lid and stores it in the fridge. Most days, she makes me go a second time, usually in the afternoon, into the same jar I have to retrieve from the fridge.

Since we both work from home, she has endless opportunities to spring this on me. I might be in the middle of a meeting or running an errand for her, and suddenly I’m ordered to strip, stroke, and deposit another load into the day’s jar. She enjoys adding little humiliations, like making me edge first, or having me parade through the house carrying the sticky jar back to the kitchen.

Her rule is that once there are ten jars lined up, I am required to consume the entire batch while she watches. It is degrading, overwhelming, and yet I can’t deny how much it excites me. Still, I wonder if this is “too much” or if other Dommes use similar rituals with their subs.

Yours in sticky service,
A Very Full Boy

My sticky boy,

You are not alone. What your wife has created is a perfect example of Cum Eating Instruction used as both discipline and entertainment. CEI is about pushing you into the raw space between humiliation and arousal. That contradiction you feel, degrading, yet exciting, is not a flaw. It’s the proof it’s working. She is breaking down your old limits and molding you into her good boy.

As for your question of “too much,” let me be clear: the only limit is what the two of you agree to. Ten jars at a time is demanding, but if you are still able to perform, and she delights in it, then you are right where you should be.

Since you asked about taste, I’ll point you toward something that will help both of you. Levi, one of our sub writers, wrote a comprehensive guide to improving semen quality and taste right here at FemdomU: The Submissive Guide to Swallowable Semen: Quality Matters. Follow his advice, and you’ll find ways to sweeten, thin, or otherwise adjust your output so that every swallow becomes less of a struggle and more of a ritual of devotion. Remember, each gulp is not just a task, it’s a tribute to her control.

Now, a little advice to your wife. You’re already building a calendar of humiliation, but you can turn this into even more of a lifestyle ritual. Here are some ideas:

• Random retrievals: Make him fetch yesterday’s jar in the middle of a work call, so he’s reminded that service comes first.
• Mix and match: Have him pour several jars into one glass, stir, and drink it in front of you like a cocktail.
• Public risk: Send him to the store to buy fresh jars, lube, or labels, knowing full well the clerk has no idea what they’re for.
• Ritualized countdown: As he drinks jar after jar, make him chant your name or thank you with every swallow.

The point is not the jar, not even the cum…it’s his obedience. Keep him on his toes, keep him guessing, and keep him gulping. You’ve found a way to make his “big loads” your entertainment, and I can assure you, plenty of other Dommes would applaud you for it.

Now, back to the writer – Be a good boy. Drink up. And while you do, remember what each jar represents. Every drop is proof of your arousal, your humiliation, and your complete surrender. You’re not just filling jars, you’re documenting your obedience, one orgasm at a time. When you lift that glass and swallow it down, you’re swallowing your pride, your resistance, and your old limits. That is what makes you valuable: not the amount you cum, but how fully you accept that she owns it, and you.

—Mizz Geena

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