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Advanced Dominatrix: 13 Brutal Ways to Punish Your Naughty Sub

For seasoned dominatrices who crave more intense power dynamics, this guide delves into the dark and depraved world of advanced punishment techniques. These diabolical ideas are designed to push boundaries and explore the deepest depths of mental and physical domination. Embrace your inner sadist and prepare to unleash hell upon your submissives with these merciless tactics. Keep in mind, these techniques are not for the faint of heart and should only be used with experienced practitioners who have given their full consent. Any permanent bodily damage is strictly prohibited. Beginner-punishers should read Starting Strong: How to Punish Your Submissive Effectively and Safely.

Illustration: Submissive Prepares for Punishment

Ice and Fire

Type: Physical
Items Needed: Ice cubes, wax candles
Level of Severity: Moderate

Sensually tease and torment your submissive by alternating between dripping hot wax and rubbing ice cubes on his skin. With each drop of wax, his body will flinch and shiver in anticipation of the contrasting sensation of ice cooling heated flesh. The intense mix of heat and cold will enhance his vulnerability, amplifying your control. As the wax hardens and the ice melts, he will be left with tingling, sensitive skin that is aching for more pleasure and pain. With BDSM safe temp candles, no part of his body is off limits.

Sensory Deprivation Chamber

Type: Mental/Physical
Items Needed: Blindfold, earplugs, padded restraints, sensory deprivation hood
Level of Severity: Moderate to High

Immerse your submissive in complete sensory deprivation, covering their face with a tight hood that cuts off all light and sound. Add a blindfold and earplugs for an even deeper sense of isolation. Otherwise nude, bind him tightly in a position that renders him completely helpless, unable to move a muscle. Leave him alone in the suffocating darkness and deafening silence for an extended period of time, occasionally creeping back to whisper wicked commands or menacing threats into his ear, amplifying their psychological torment to unbearable levels.

Illustration: The Angry Domme Girlfriend

Electric Shock Therapy

Type: Physical
Items Needed: Electro-stimulation device
Level of Severity: High

The electrodes attached to his body send waves of electrifying pain through every nerve, targeting the most sensitive areas such as his nipples, cock and balls, and inner thighs. With each controlled shock, his body convulses and spasms, his mind unable to predict when the next jolt will come. The pulsing current courses through him, leaving him trembling and gasping for air as he endures the intense pleasure-pain.

Forced Orgasm Denial

Type: Mental/Physical
Items Needed: Vibrator, restraints
Level of Severity: High

With a firm hand, restrain your submissive and use a merciless vibrator to bring him to the edge of ecstasy repeatedly, denying him release. His body will thrash in desperate need as you revel in his complete submission to your control. Leave him bound and helpless for extended periods of time, only to return and continue the torturous pleasure anew. Set a strict time limit for his transgression – perhaps 1 hour for something as simple as not making the bed, or 6 hours for a more serious offense like forgetting to put down the toilet seat. As he squirms and pleads for mercy, remind him that his punishment is a direct result of his disobedience, further cementing your dominance over him.

Illustration: Public Humiliation for Naughty Boy

Public Humiliation

Type: Mental
Items Needed: Leash, collar, public setting (private but visible)
Level of Severity: Moderate to High

Lead your submissive to a secluded and shadowy place, somewhere he can hear the distant sounds of civilization but feel completely exposed. Secure a collar tightly around his neck, tugging on the leash like a ruthless puppet master. Command him to perform degrading acts in public, like kissing your feet or mimicking an animal’s growl, as strangers pass by in the distance, their eyes flickering with curiosity and disapproval. Ramp up the intensity even further by inserting an anal plug into his quivering body, forcing him to focus on clenching and holding it in while being subjected to your every whim.

Pegging Punishment

Type: Physical/Sexual
Items Needed: Strap-on dildo, lube
Level of Severity: High to Very High

Take control of your submissive with a strap-on dildo, mercilessly pegging him and pushing his limits. With each thrust, vary the speed and depth to keep him constantly on edge, never knowing when you’ll push him over the brink. This is no gentle lovemaking session – make it rough, pounding into him with all the force you can muster. Spank his ass until it’s raw, or use an implement tool that leaves a trail of fiery pain wherever it strikes as your strapon plunges deep into his prostate. And for added punishment, bring out the monster – a massive dildo that stretches and fills every inch of him. This form of discipline not only reinforces your dominance but also provides intense physical and psychological stimulation, breaking down any resistance and leaving him completely at your mercy. Learn more in our article Punish Pegging – The Ultimate Dominatrix Technique.

Illustration: Punish Pegging – For Pain or Pleasure?

Ice Bath Interrogation

Type: Physical/Mental
Items Needed: Bathtub, ice
Level of Severity: Very High

The bathtub is filled with a mixture of ice and water, the frigid temperature sending shivers down your submissive’s spine as he lays in anticipation. With each dunk under the surface, his body convulses with shock and fear, amplifying your dominance over him. As you interrogate him, his desperate gasps for air become muffled by the icy liquid, making it harder for him to resist confessing every single one of his sins. And just when he thinks he has nothing left to reveal, you lower his head underwater once more, forcing out even deeper and darker confessions from his trembling lips.

Ball Stretching

Type: Physical
Items Needed: Ball stretcher, weights
Level of Severity: Very High

With a sadistic glint in your eye, you attach a merciless ball stretcher to your submissive’s vulnerable testicles. You then add weights, gradually increasing the strain on his delicate flesh until he’s writhing in intense agony and submitting completely to your will. This punishment serves as a brutal reminder of his place beneath you and instills a deep fear of disobedience.

Illustration: Make Him Look Pretty

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)

Type: Physical
Items Needed: Clamps, ropes, weights
Level of Severity: Very High to Extreme

Indulge in the intoxicating rush of power as you mercilessly clamp, bind, and weigh down your submissive’s most vulnerable and delicate bodyparts – his cock and balls. Keep him on edge by alternating between levels of excruciating pain and brief moments of relief, leaving him constantly guessing and trembling with both fear and pleasure. With each wicked twist and pull, listen to his begs for mercy. Surrender to your deepest desires and revel in the absolute control you have over his every sensation, inflicting exquisite agony that surpasses all limits.

Forced Cross-Dressing

Type: Mental/Physical
Items Needed: Female clothing, makeup
Level of Severity: Moderate to High

With a cruel smirk, you force your submissive into a tight-fitting dress, smearing makeup onto his face in mocking strokes. You parade him around the house like a puppet, reveling in his humiliation as he stumbles and struggles to maintain his dignity. But why stop there? Take him out in public, dressed in drag, and watch as his confidence crumbles with each passing stare and snicker from strangers. A night at the bar becomes a twisted game of control as you make him order drinks and flirt with other patrons while secretly relishing in his shame and degradation. This is not just play – this is psychological warfare to cement your dominance over his shattered sense of self.

Illustration: Make Him Look Pretty

Breath Control Play

Type: Physical/Mental
Items Needed: Plastic bag, timer
Level of Severity: EXTREME

With a plastic bag held over his head, your submissive is at your mercy as you control his very breath. The thin layer of plastic between him and suffocation instills a primal fear and sense of helplessness that will leave him trembling with anticipation. But be careful not to push the limits too far, for the power and dominance you hold could quickly turn into deadly consequences. Make sure to do your research before attempting dangerous punishments.

Forced Chastity

Type: Mental/Physical
Items Needed: Chastity device
Level of Severity: Moderate to High

Picture this: Your submissive, locked in a cold, unforgiving chastity device for weeks on end. Every day, you remind him why he’s being punished while you tease him mercilessly with your hands, stroking and caressing his imprisoned cock until it strains against its metal prison. But he knows he cannot have release, and the frustration and longing for pleasure only intensifies his submission to you as his keyholder. And just when he thinks it can’t get any worse, you bring out a powerful vibrator and press it against his desperate cock, sending waves of agonizing pleasure through his body yet denying him the ultimate release. The ache and desperation in his eyes only deepens his dependence on you as his cruel captor.

Illustration: Ready for his Punishment

24 Hours of Hourly Tasks

Type: Mental/Physical
Items Needed: Alarms, interruptions
Level of Severity: High to Very High

The punishment is set in motion as his alarm sounds every hour, each one a reminder of the tasks that follow. From mundane household cleaning to strenuous exercise, his body is pushed to its limits with a full 24 hours of constant tasks. And when the alarms sound for him to collect his seed, he does so dutifully and with a twisted sense of pleasure, filling a jar and keeping it in the fridge. Make the final task the ultimate test of his endurance and humiliation – consuming his own filth, a disgusting act that serves as the final degradation in this twisted game of torment. Make sure he takes a selfie of each task, ensuring you can sleep through the night! Failure to comply with any of these tasks will result in even harsher consequences…

Advanced Punishments for Experienced Dommes

These advanced punishment techniques offer a range of options for the seasoned dominatrix looking to explore deeper levels of control and domination. Each method is designed to push boundaries and enhance the dynamic between you and your submissive. Always prioritize safety, communication, and consent to ensure that your sessions are not only intense but also respectful and consensual. Embrace your sadistic tendencies and enjoy the power you wield as an advanced dominatrix.

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