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Summer Subbie Challenges: 17 Fun and Naughty Tasks for Your Sub to Complete This Summer

Summer’s here, and it’s time to crank up the heat! For all you fierce Dommes looking to spice up your dynamic, we’ve got a scorching list of sexy, wild, and downright dirty challenges to keep your sub on their knees. Ready to take control and push your sub to their limits? We’ve come up with 17 Summer Subbie Challenges, each with a different point value.

How to Play: Decide how many points you want your sub to earn this summer, and let him know what his reward will be (or punishment if he doesn’t achieve). Give him a deadline, we suggest Labor Day, for his challenge to end. You’ll add up all the points and decide his reward or punishment. And don’t forget—share your sultry snapshots with our readers using our submission form!

Let’s dive into these sizzling summer subbie challenges, rated with points for difficulty and the delicious risk of public humiliation.

Bikini Tanline (8 Points)

Push your sub to embrace his inner femininity and challenge him to flaunt his curves in a skimpy women’s bikini. As he basks under the scorching sun, remind him of his submission and the task at hand: achieving the perfect tan lines that proudly proclaim his subservience. Don’t forget to capture every alluring angle and share them with us as a visual testament of his dedication to serving his Domme.

Ice Cream Slave (5 Points)

Send your submissive to the nearby ice cream stand, donned in a feminine, frilly apron that leaves little to the imagination. He must confidently order your favorite treat and flirt shamelessly with the server, regardless of their gender. Take it up a notch by instructing him to add a naughty twist, such as saying, “I’m getting this for my Mistress,” while giving a suggestive wink. Make it even more enticing by telling him to explain to the server that if the treat isn’t perfect, his “Mistress will punish me.” The image of your submissive playing out these commands under the hot sun, surrounded by sweet treats and potential onlookers, is sure to make for a tantalizing scene.

Summer Themed Photoshoot (9 Points)

Dress your him in a fun, summer-themed outfit. You could go with Lifeguard, Sailor or Surfer, or have him embrace his Summer-Sissy and dress him in a women’s swimsuit. Take him somewhere outdoors like the local park or shopping distrcit, and direct him to pose. He must follow your commands to earn the points, and you get a sexy photoshoot to remember your Femdom Summer. And, you can enhance his experience by sharing the photos with our readers here!

Subbie Scavenger Hunt (6 Points)

Compose a list of taboo objects for your submissive to retrieve: lacy lingerie from a high-end boutique, a pack of extra-large condoms from a seedy drugstore, and a risqué magazine from a sleazy corner shop. Or, take it to the next level with a visit to an adult emporium, tasking him to procure not just any items, but specific ones such as an intimidating anal plug and slick lubricant. Upon his return, demand that he presents his loot with a sly smirk and trembling hands.

Subbie Chef (5 Points)

Gather your kink-friendly friends or plan a romantic summer BBQ for just the two of you. But add a kinky twist by making your sub the “naked chef” for the evening. Watch as he dons an apron that leaves little to the imagination, grilling up delicious meats and serving them to you with submission. As the night goes on, he’ll continue to cater to your every need, all while being exposed and vulnerable in his minimal attire. And to earn his points, when the meal is finished, he’ll dutifully clean up every last dish, showing his dedication and obedience. A perfect mix of indulgence and dominance, this will be a BBQ like no other.

Panty Shopping (4 Points)

Instruct your submissive to enter a luxurious lingerie boutique, adorned with delicate lace and satin fabrics. He must approach a sales associate with confident steps, his heart pounding with nervous excitement. He humbly requests assistance in finding the perfect pair of panties for himself, as he wishes to please his mistress in every way possible. The air is filled with the scent of expensive perfumes and the gentle murmur of customers browsing through the exquisite garments. The environment feels both intimate and intimidating, adding to the intensity of the task at hand for the submissive.

Wet T-Shirt Contest (6 Points)

Dress your submissive in a crisp, white T-shirt, drenching the fabric with water until it clings tightly to his skin. Put his collar on and take him for a walk along the sandy shores of the beach, or through the bustling paths of a nearby park. The translucent material will reveal every curve and contour of his body, leaving little to the imagination and drawing admiring glances from passersby.

Public Spanking (9 Points)

In a secluded corner of the lush, green outdoors, bend your sub over and deliver a series of firm, stinging smacks to his exposed ass. The potential for being caught by passersby only adds to the heightened sense of thrill and humiliation. Feeling particularly naughty? Have him wear loose shorts with an elastic waistband and no underwear for your outing, allowing you easy access to pull them down for impromptu spankings anywhere – whether it be in a park, on a hike, or even at a crowded outdoor event. The anticipation of when and where the next spanking will occur will surely keep both of you on edge and add an exciting element to your outdoor playtime.

Public Gagging (7 Points)

Take a leisurely walk through the peaceful park, surrounded by towering trees and blooming flower beds. Sneakily slip a ball gag onto your submissive partner under their discreet face mask. The subtle pressure of the gag against their lips will serve as a constant reminder of your secret play in public. As passersby go about their day, you and your partner will share an exhilarating thrill, knowing that they are silently gagged in plain sight. The heat between you both will only intensify with each step you take together.

Cum Control (10 Points)

A perfect way to pass a hot summer day: tease your submissive with the promise of an orgasm, only to edge him multiple times and deny them release. Whether you’re exploring the great outdoors or enjoying a lazy day at home, assert your dominance over his pleasure by keeping him on the brink of ecstasy. Make sure he understands who holds the power over his cock, whether he’s writhing in anticipation or begging for mercy. It’s a game of control and surrender, building anticipation and desire with each denial, until finally unleashing his pent-up energy in one explosive release.

Subbie Tattoo (7 Points)

With the sharp point of a permanent marker, etch your ownership onto your sub’s skin in bold letters. Phrases like “Owned” or “Cum Slut” “Dirty Whore” and “BitchBoy” are to be proudly displayed on visible parts of his body. Take him on outings where he can show off these marks, baring his shirtless body for all to see. His flesh becomes a canvas for your desires, a testament to his submission and devotion.

Foot Fetish (6 Points)

Transport your sub to a lush park or tranquil outdoor setting, where the gentle breeze carries the scent of blooming flowers and birds sing in harmony. Find a secluded spot and have him lay out a soft quilt for you to recline on. As he kneels before you, delicately massaging your feet with his skilled hands, make sure he maintains eye contact with you at all times as he worships and kisses each toe with reverence. Let those passing by catch a glimpse of his unwavering devotion as they stroll by, adding an extra thrill to this intimate experience.

Subbie Selfie (5 Points)

Challenge your submissive to take a daring selfie outside, with a toy either in his mouth or up his ass. Encourage him to post it on social media, teasingly hinting at his submission without giving away too much. For the more risque photos, suggest using a Fetlife account and don’t forget to send us a link! Make sure the photo captures the thrill and vulnerability of your sub as he obediently follows your command, pushing himself beyond his comfort zone for your pleasure. This task will surely make his heart race with anticipation and desire to please you.

Dirty Talk (7 Points)

In a bustling cafe, surrounded by chatter and clinking dishes, have your submissive partner whisper in your ear all the dirty things he wants to do to you. Then give him phrases he must say out loud, loud enough others can hear. His voice trembling with desire and embarrassment as he says things like “I want to ravish you, my Mistress,” “My body is yours to use and abuse,” “Please let me feel your touch”; or “I am a filthy plaything at your command.” Of course, you’ll find the phrases that make him blush the most and don’t let him off easy. If his voice falters or becomes too quiet, make him repeat it until he speaks it loud and clear, for everyone to hear his submission to you. The thrill of being overheard adds an extra layer of excitement to this intimate moment between Dominant and submissive.

Pussy Worship Picnic (8 Points)

Indulge in the ultimate act of submission and pleasure with the Picnic Pussy Worship Challenge. Take your sub on a journey to a secluded spot, surrounded by the natural beauty of the outdoors. Spread out a soft, plush picnic blanket and have him kneel before you, his task set before him: to worship your pussy until you reach the peak of ecstasy. As he lavishly worships your most intimate area, feel the thrill of knowing that anyone could stumble upon your scandalous affair. The sounds of birds chirping and leaves rustling add to the ambiance as you surrender yourself to the sensations coursing through your body. Let nature be your witness as you experience the ultimate connection between dominance and submission, pleasure and power.

The Cum Walk of Shame (6 Points)

Before stepping out of the car for a summer BBQ at a friend’s house or attending a lively outdoor festival, make him surrender his release in his underwear. You can orchestrate this within the confines of the car, either taking charge yourself or directing him to complete the task while you patiently wait. The crucial factor is that his cum must be contained within his undergarments. Then, when you both exit the vehicle, force him to stroll around with his now-stained undies on underneath his clothing. The sensation and aroma will serve as a constant reminder of his submission and your control over him.

Hiking Heels (4 Points)

For a bit of a challenge, have your sub hike a short trail in high heels. It’s a great way to test his endurance and dedication. Take pictures or a video as he works to navigate the short distance, all the while blushing from the attention of the other hikers. Of course if you’re super sadistic, inserting a butt plug he must also concentrate on keeping inside during his hike should add a few extra points to this challenge.

Summer Femdom Challenges: Let Your Imagination Run Wild!

We hope this list provided a solid foundation for your Summer adventures, but perhaps you can come up with even more challenges to add to it? Share your ideas with us and keep the fun going. Whatever you do, get out there, enjoy yourself, and assert your dominance over him for all to see!

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