The FemdomU WHIP
thing2 and His Remedial Training
One of my Patreon boys on the weekly training tier is working on improving his cunnilingus skills. As part of that, he purchased one of those realistic pussy toys, and I’ve been assigning him practice exercises with it. He then sends me photos and reports back on...
My LA Chauffeur
I spent four days in LA recently, and somewhere around day one I realized I needed a damn driver. My schedule was insane. Meetings all over town, dinners, social events, random networking bullshit. And if you’ve ever been stuck waiting on an Uber in LA traffic...
When She Gives Away the Key
So I can actually handle chastity pretty well. Seriously. I know that surprises some people because I complain like a bastard, but after awhile my brain adjusts. The cage becomes normal. I stop thinking about my cock every five seconds and settle into my role. But...
Ask for Clarification, Not Forgiveness
If a command is unclear, do not guess. Acting without full understanding can lead to mistakes that affect safety, trust, and the overall dynamic. Asking for clarification shows awareness and respect for the process. There is no weakness in making sure you...
Well… That Happened
Oye. I am usually very, very careful about keeping my vanilla life separate from my kinky one. Cody and I have kids, extended family, school obligations, all the normal parts of suburban life. We are selective about who knows the truth about our household. Most of...
Profiles in Kink: Alexis Carrington
Today, we pay homage to one of the most dazzling icons of 80's primetime television: Dame Joan Collins, who turns 93 today! Her portrayal of the scheming villainess Alexis Carrington Colby Dexter, etc. on the primetime soap opera "Dynasty" made an indelible mark on...
Welcome ohtoole
Please help me welcome our newest volunteer sub, ohtoole. He comes to us with real experience in service, having spent years serving within a dominant-led relationship dynamic, and he is now dedicating himself to the Matriarchy of FemdomU. One thing that stood out...
5 Ways I Plan To Improve as a Submissive Man
Become a Better Listener and Observer Pay attention to every detail of instructions, change in moods, likes and dislikes, anticipate her needs ahead of time. Make sure her needs are met in a timely manner. Her needs are my only priority. Don’t Make the Same Mistake...
We Found It
I’ve been very busy lately with something huge. House hunting. We finally made the decision to move out of the city, and honestly, we’ve been searching for the right property for the better part of a year. I had a very specific list of requirements, and I was not...
The Gym Sub I Accidentally Broke
I met him at the gym. One of those loud, cocky guys who clearly spends more time staring at himself in mirrors than actually thinking. Thick arms, decent chest, always walking around like he owned the place. And of course, the second he realized I was interested in...










Miss Autumn, I liked the point about how a gag can make a submissive focus more on his Domme and…
Mistress Heather, thank you and all the Dommes of the Conclave for trusting me, promoting me, and continuing to give…
Thank you, It's great to be here!
What is with the guy who don´t like to be cuckoldet at all but loves to be walked all over…
Miss Autumn, Thank You for the gag article. I love the way you take something so basic as keeping a…