A Life of Submission: Zeek’s Interview on Navigating Femdom, Love, and Pain with His Wife Annie

I had a chance to sit down with Zeek, the newest member of the FemdomU team, to ask him some questions and learn more about him. Zeek isn’t just the website designer for FemdomU Magazine—he’s also a key player in helping independent content creators build and maintain their online presence through his business, RareMoon. But his story goes far beyond tech expertise. Zeek and his wife Annie have a long and unique history rooted in female domination, dating back to when they first met in high school. Their relationship has evolved over the years, and now, with their Femdom dynamic reignited, Annie challenges Zeek with extreme tasks to perform whenever she travels. Through it all, Zeek remains deeply devoted, navigating a complex and intense world of submission and control that continues to push his boundaries.

Interview with Zeek: A Journey of Submission, Control, and Growth

Mistress Heather: Zeek, it’s such a pleasure to be interviewing you today. Your journey is fascinating, and I know a lot of people have been eager to hear your story in more detail. Let’s start from the very beginning. How did your relationship with your wife, Annie, evolve into what it is now?

Zeek: Thankyou Mistress Heather. Yeah, it’s been quite the journey. Annie and I met in high school—she’s a year older than me, and she transferred into my school when I was a sophomore and she was a junior. From the start, there was this natural dominant-submissive dynamic between us. She was always in control, and she made it clear that’s how things were going to be. I won’t get into all the specifics, but she loves to remind me that she knew my body back before it had matured, before I had chest hair, before my pubes were in, before my cock was fully grown. She also likes to remind me that she took my virginity. That’s a story I’ll share someday, if allowed.

One of the earliest examples of our dynamic was when she had me please her orally during classes, sneaking into the girls’ bathroom and getting down on my knees in the stall. Every day she would tell me what underwear to wear and would make me show her, sometimes in front of other people.

Then, there was one time we skipped class and went back to her house. She wanted to have sex on her parents’ bed and then cuffed me to the headboard. Turns out, her parents were into kink too because there were actual eyebolts in the bed frame! She strapped me down and rode me hard, making a lot of noise. We were so into it, we didn’t hear her dad come home. The thing is, Annie was in a bit of her teenage rebellious stage, and had intended to get caught. I’ll never forget that. Imagine coming home, finding your naked teen daughter riding some naked guy who is tied up to your bed! Her dad hated me ever since, though it wasn’t like I planned any of that!

Mistress Heather: That’s an intense start to your relationship! What happened as you two moved into your college years?

Zeek: College was another wild chapter for us. I followed her to the same school, and we continued to explore our kinks. It was a lot of experimentation, honestly. And other people involved in our sessions. She was really into having sex around others, and involving them in our fun. There was a ton of exhibitionism, and of course, BDSM. Usually we involved other women, but there were times she would involve another guy – usually submissive, and the two of us would focus on pleasing her. There wasn’t anything sexual between us guys, but we’d get pretty close while focusing on Annie’s pleasure.

We also lived with her best friend Liza for a while. Annie struck a deal with her—if I pleased Liza orally whenever she demanded, we’d pay less rent. And let me tell you, Liza made full use of that arrangement, sometimes even when we had visitors over. Liza would even have me perform in front of Annie. The thing is, Annie never got jealous. She knew I was hers, hopelessly and unconditionally.

Mistress Heather: Were you and Annie together, girlfriend and boyfriend, throughout all of college?

Zeek: No, I wish. We were off-again, on-again so many times throughout those years, I lost count. Usually when we were off-again it was because she decided we needed a break. She dated others while I struggled with my dating life—basically one failure after another. During those off periods, I knew she had control over me even when we weren’t officially together.

When Annie and I were on, our sex life was an intense mix of oral, dominant fucking, and really intense BDSM. I’m what she calls a pain slut, so we got deep into CBT (cock and ball torture) during those years. We made a lot of mistakes, sure, but we learned from them, and they set the stage for what was to come later.

Mistress Heather: So you had this intense, adventurous relationship through college. What happened once you both settled into adult life?

Zeek: After college, things settled down for a bit. We got married and entered the typical adult phase—careers, family obligations, all that. Our sex life became pretty vanilla for a while, mainly because we just didn’t have the time or energy to live out the Domme/sub dynamic we both enjoyed.

But a couple of years ago, things started to change again. With family obligations easing up, we found more time for each other. That’s when we started rekindling the dominant-submissive aspect of our relationship. There wasn’t any formal contract or anything, it just evolved naturally. For example, I handle most of the housework now, though she enjoys cooking when she’s home. She’s the primary breadwinner, earning way more than I do, but I manage the bills. She hates dealing with that part, but don’t be fooled—she controls the funds. I actually made an impulsive purchase this summer, a new gas grill while she was away. She saw the charge on the card and waited until she got home to address it. I thought we’d have our usual fun “just got home” sex session, but she had other plans. Let’s just say the punishment was severe.

Mistress Heather: Well, don’t leave us hanging there. You know I like a good punishment story – what did she do to you?

Zeek: She cuffed me to the bed and really tortured my cock and balls. I can take a lot, and actually crave cbt, but this went beyond that. Not only did she use a paddle on both my cock and balls, she ended up using a new switch on it – just twice. It left one really good mark. Then, she got on and rode me until I was desperate to cum, I mean begging her for release. But she didn’t let me finish—she just climbed off and left me there, hard and frustrated. It was beyond what I typically enjoy, but that’s the kind of control she has over me. It was also a pretty good lesson on who controls the checkbook.

Mistress Heather: That sounds like a turning point in your dynamic. How does it work when she travels for work? I know you’ve mentioned that being apart can be difficult for you.

Zeek: Yeah, that’s been one of the hardest parts. Annie is very recognizable in her professional community, and she travels a lot for work. It’s tough on me because I can’t usually travel with her. Every time she leaves, I get really down. Honestly, I’d call it depression. Saying goodbye to her is brutal, even after all these years.

That’s where Madam Nora came in. She gave my wife this devious idea of doing some Distance Domination tasks when she’s away.

Mistress Heather: I want to get more into those tasks, but first, tell me about RareMoon.

Zeek: RareMoon has been a huge part of my life recently. It’s a business I started that focuses on designing, managing, and hosting adult websites. There are a lot of challenges in this space—most hosting companies won’t touch anything that involves NSFW content, and designers often shy away too. But we work with the best in the industry to make sure our clients stay online. We work with a lot of independent content providers, blog writers, OnlyFans performers. And of course, professional Dominatrices!

That’s how I got involved with FemdomU. As you know, I met her through your husband Cody, with whom I’d worked in the past. Cody connected me with Nora after hearing about my new business, RareMoon when the magazine needed help with the website. We ended up getting the contract to help with the magazine’s website, and that’s how I became more integrated with the team.

Mistress Heather: What has it been like working with FemdomU?

Off the wall crazy. My wife and I got to attend Madam Nora’s famous 420 party at her estate this year, and let me tell you, that was an experience I won’t forget. My wife and I are planning to write about it in a feature article next April, but I can tell you now—it was wild. Well, you know – you were there! But

One of the key things that came out of that event was the idea of distance domination, which has really helped with the time we spend apart. Nora and Annie conspired to come up with a series of “While My Mistress Was Away” challenges to keep me occupied when Annie is gone. The tasks range from humiliating to outright difficult, and they help me stay connected to her dominance even when we’re miles apart. Since then, things have only gotten more extreme.

Some of the challenges involve her trusted friends, and the tasks have gotten crazier as time has gone on—especially since some of the Dommes from FemdomU started making suggestions. I’ve had to do things I never thought I’d be capable of, and these challenges often involve FaceTime calls where Annie watches to make sure I’m completing the task. There are rewards along the way, but the most intense moments come when she returns home. Our sex sessions after she’s been gone are some of the most passionate we’ve ever had.

Mistress Heather: It sounds like distance domination has really become a key part of your relationship. I’m looking forward to my turn to work with Annie on one of your challenges. It sounds like you’re really being pushed to your limits. What’s next for you? Will you continue with these challenges?

Zeek: I’m at a bit of a crossroads now, though. The tasks have gotten so difficult that I’m not sure if I can keep going. There’s also the fact that the punishments for not completing a task are not the fun kind—these punishments are designed to make me truly regret failing. I’m still figuring out if I can keep going. I think I’ve got some time before Annie travels again, so I’ll be catching up on writing about my experiences for Kinktober. The tasks sure started out fairly simple, but now they’re much more intense. I’ll be sharing all the details in the magazine’s upcoming Kinktober content, but to answer your question, I don’t know. I’m at a point where I need to decide whether I can fully embrace this lifestyle moving forward or admit that I’ve hit my limit.

Whatever happens, I’m incredibly lucky to have Annie’s love and control in my life. She pushes me in ways that no one else could, and even when she’s away, I feel her presence and her dominance every single day.

Mistress Heather: Zeek, thank you so much for sharing all of this. It’s an incredible journey, and I know a lot of readers will be excited to follow along with your Kinktober adventures.

Zeek: Thanks, Mistress Heather. It’s been great talking with you and working with the team. I can’t wait to see what the future holds!