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Beginner Anal Play: Go Slow, Use Lube

by | Aug 11, 2025 | 3 comments

If you’re new to anal play, patience is everything. Your body needs time to adjust, both physically and mentally. Start with a clean, relaxed environment and a small toy or finger. Always, always use plenty of lube—thicker water-based or silicone-based formulas are ideal. Go slow, breathe, and listen to your body. You don’t have to take it all today. There’s no prize for rushing, but there’s plenty of pain if you do. Submissive readiness includes knowing your limits and training responsibly.

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3 Comments

  1. ready2

    Slow and easy soft purrr

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  2. Mistress Meghan

    Every asshole is different. krissi’s opened pretty quickly at first. Jeff and Tony the tightest and slowest to open of our group. Everyone must pay attention and communicate. Pegging” and many other things “ass” have been part of my group’s routine all along and now the boys will all take Katie’s fist and forearm – either by Halloween or be punished.
    krissi took her at the 4th of July get-together. In fact, I’m getting ahead of myself …
    Saturday – at national orgasm day’s finale on Mollie’s lawn – on a whim (after all, all their holes had been “dancing” from e-Stim for hours (BTW, it was hilarious to turn up the volume to AC/DC’s “Thunderstruck”!!)) – we decided to showcase the assholes by lining them up (against the back porch wall, in submissive position 3) and inviting our guests to fill the holes. Once Jeannie and I got it started, I think most all joined in, even Gwinneth!! At the very end, Katie led krissi “center stage,” laid him back, Mollie and Janice each raised a leg high, and she repeated taking full ownership of his hole with her arm (the left arm this time). Then, again because everyone was so worked-up, I thought “why not” and said to Rita, “let’s try now. Stick your arm up his butt.”
    It was the perfect ending. Everyone was mesmerized. Some were stunned. A few demanded further service immediately.
    So, the point is that “slowly does it” is the only way. Take your time. But progress. No going back. Once you get his hole fully stretched and conditioned, and use it regularly, you’ve got a great and adaptive toy – for ladies (and their men should you choose).
    As I’ve expanded his service, krissi has never suffered any incontinence or other malady other than lingering soreness. He closes fully. After Rita “tickled his tummy (from the inside)” Saturday, I kept him in-position so everyone could get another drink and watch the displayed hole, initially gaped widely, close slowly. One of us inserted smaller things as it closed – having him grip them, to show the hole’s flexible and durable recovery. After 20 minutes, or so, it was again a nicely closed pucker, ringed by a visible pelvic floor – telltale of advanced development – a perfect picture of the full-service man-pussy for everyone to see!!
    P. S. He’s “full service.” the cock remained rock-hard (and dripping) through all this. Ladies couldn’t resist stroking it occasionally but I can assure it was hard for stroking (and play) not because of it.

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  3. Mistress Meghan

    We are always talking about our boy’s backdoors. But what about ours? Our holes are more important than theirs; no?
    Well. the same principles apply.
    Enjoy your butts, Ladies!!

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