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Health & Safety Section Editor
NurseDomme Jessica brings her extensive experience as a retired first aid professional to her role as the Health & Safety Section Editor for FemdomU Magazine. Known for her meticulous attention to detail and unwavering dedication to safety, Jessica ensures that all our content promotes safe, consensual practices in femdom activities.
Jessica’s unique perspective as both a healthcare professional and a lifestyle participant allows her to bridge the gap between kink and care. Living with her supportive husband in the Northeast, she enjoys a balanced life filled with travel, exploration, and femdom adventures. She frequently collaborates with Madam Nora Sinclair, lending her expertise to BDSM parties and events as an aftercare specialist. At these gatherings, Jessica not only provides first aid but also relishes the playful attention she receives from submissive males, making her a celebrated figure within the community.
Beyond her professional contributions, Jessica is an avid traveler who delights in exploring new cultures and meeting people from all walks of life. Whether she’s participating in Madam Nora’s legendary femdom extravaganzas or sharing her experiences through the pages of FemdomU, Jessica remains committed to fostering a safe, informed, and inclusive environment for all.
Through her writings, Jessica offers invaluable insights into the intersection of healthcare and kink, empowering readers to embrace their desires with confidence and care.
Not all candles are safe for play. Regular ones burn too hot and can cause serious burns. Use...
Alcohol and kink don’t mix. It slows reflexes, dulls pain, and clouds judgment—making injuries...
In a well-executed scene, pain is intentional, controlled, and pleasurable. But if discomfort...
No matter how careful you are, accidents can and do happen. A well-stocked first-aid...
Gags add intensity, but they also take away a sub’s ability to speak—making traditional...
TENS units and violet wands can add thrilling sensations to a scene—but they’re not toys to...
Safewords are essential in BDSM, but a three-tier system like green, yellow, red offers nuance and empowerment. This structure gives submissives clear ways to communicate, while Dommes show leadership through care and consent. Learn how to use the stoplight system to deepen trust, enhance safety, and strengthen your dynamic.
In power exchange dynamics, extreme acts of devotion can carry hidden health risks—especially as a submissive ages. Our Health & Safety Section Editor explores how a Dominant can safeguard her partner’s well-being while maintaining the intensity of play. From bacterial exposure to immune changes, learn how to balance risk and resilience for a long-lasting, fulfilling D/s relationship.
Understanding the Non-Consensual Fantasy in Femdom Within the realm of Femdom, one of the most common and controversial fantasies is the idea of non-consent, often referred to as "forced" submission or coercion play. This can include fantasies where a submissive is...
Being a Domme is exhilarating but demanding, and self-care is key to thriving in your role. This guide explores how to balance dominance with mindfulness, from having your own safeword to delegating tasks and incorporating rituals of renewal. Discover actionable tips to feel empowered, energized, and ready to lead confidently into the new year.
Effective communication is essential in femdom relationships, fostering trust, consent, and intimacy between partners. Whether during play or daily interactions, clear dialogue strengthens the bond between Domme and sub. Learn how to start meaningful conversations, maintain active listening, and navigate challenges to create a thriving, dynamic connection.
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