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Mistress Heather

Managing Editor, Feature Writer

​Heather is a seasoned writer in the adult industry with over a decade of experience. Her extensive career includes reviewing adult toys, covering prominent Adult Entertainment Conventions like Adultcon, and authoring sex education articles. Heather has even showcased her creativity by writing scripts for adult films. Her diverse portfolio reflects her deep knowledge and passion for the field.

Being a mother and a dominatrix might seem like a paradox, but it's all about balance. I can be nurturing and commanding, loving and strict, all at once.

Heather’s journey into the professional world began in the vanilla corporate sector, where she was hired as a technical writer by Cody, who would later become her husband. Their professional relationship was short-lived as Heather transferred to another division after just a few months, but their personal connection blossomed, leading to a close relationship and eventually marriage.

heather & Cody’s FLR

Embracing their dynamic, Heather and Cody have cultivated a female-led relationship (FLR) in which Cody, who is naturally submissive, supports Heather’s leadership.

Residing in a suburban mid-western town, Heather and Cody balance their professional and personal lives while raising their four children. Heather continues to make significant contributions to publications such as FemdomU Magazine, where she writes feature articles and short posts, sharing her insights and experiences in the Femdom and adult entertainment communities. Meanwhile, Cody thrives in his IT career, providing stability and support for their family.

In their FLR, Heather assumes a dominant role, making most of the major decisions within their relationship. Cody is a devoted father and an active partner in parenting, with both making equal decisions regarding their children’s upbringing. However, Heather takes charge of decisions concerning Cody’s body, career, finances, and various daily matters, embodying the principles of their consensual and fulfilling dynamic.

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In addition to her writing, Heather is also a professional dominatrix, offering her expertise and services to a select group of long-term clients. This career choice aligns with her lifestyle and personal beliefs, though she maintains strict privacy to protect her family’s well-being.

Heather’s multifaceted career and personal life exemplify her dedication, strength, and versatility. Whether through her writing, her professional dominatrix sessions, or her role as a mother and partner, Heather continues to inspire and lead with confidence and compassion.

More: Read what Madam Nora Sinclair had to say about Heather in her post “Meet the FemdomU Magazine Team.”

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