Cody’s Men’s Health Month Makeover
My husband Cody’s focus for Men’s Health Month is a full below-the-waist makeover. His...
Managing Editor, Feature Writer
Heather is a seasoned writer in the adult industry with over a decade of experience. Her extensive career includes reviewing adult toys, covering prominent Adult Entertainment Conventions like Adultcon, and authoring sex education articles. Heather has even showcased her creativity by writing scripts for adult films. Her diverse portfolio reflects her deep knowledge and passion for the field.
Heather’s journey into the professional world began in the vanilla corporate sector, where she was hired as a technical writer by Cody, who would later become her husband. Their professional relationship was short-lived as Heather transferred to another division after just a few months, but their personal connection blossomed, leading to a close relationship and eventually marriage.
Embracing their dynamic, Heather and Cody have cultivated a female-led relationship (FLR) in which Cody, who is naturally submissive, supports Heather’s leadership.
Residing in a suburban mid-western town, Heather and Cody balance their professional and personal lives while raising their four children. Heather continues to make significant contributions to publications such as FemdomU Magazine, where she writes feature articles and short posts, sharing her insights and experiences in the Femdom and adult entertainment communities. Meanwhile, Cody thrives in his IT career, providing stability and support for their family.
In their FLR, Heather assumes a dominant role, making most of the major decisions within their relationship. Cody is a devoted father and an active partner in parenting, with both making equal decisions regarding their children’s upbringing. However, Heather takes charge of decisions concerning Cody’s body, career, finances, and various daily matters, embodying the principles of their consensual and fulfilling dynamic.
In addition to her writing, Heather is also a professional dominatrix, offering her expertise and services to a select group of long-term clients. This career choice aligns with her lifestyle and personal beliefs, though she maintains strict privacy to protect her family’s well-being.
Heather’s multifaceted career and personal life exemplify her dedication, strength, and versatility. Whether through her writing, her professional dominatrix sessions, or her role as a mother and partner, Heather continues to inspire and lead with confidence and compassion.
More: Read what Madam Nora Sinclair had to say about Heather in her post “Meet the FemdomU Magazine Team.”
My husband Cody’s focus for Men’s Health Month is a full below-the-waist makeover. His...
Progress Report: anonsubMonth: MayEvaluator: Mistress Heather, Oversight Domme Top...
Had a little unexpected moment at Trader Joe’s today. A young man, maybe early 20s, was bagging...
I am pleased to announce that Conclave II is now officially closed. Over the course of this...
As we cast our votes for Conclave II, I wanted to take a moment to highlight the resolutions I...
Conclave II is in full swing, and the Discussion Phase has been lively to say the least. Most...
Brats test boundaries, tease authority, and crave discipline. Mistress Heather explains how to tell playful mischief from true disobedience and shares Domme-approved strategies for taming defiant subs. From gentle corrections to full punishment, this guide explores the psychology, structure, and art of breaking a brat while building deeper trust.
Mistress Heather reveals the erotic intimacy of the Femdom sleepover. From where a sub sleeps to how he wakes, every detail reinforces hierarchy, obedience, and care. Learn how Dommes design nighttime rituals, sleeping positions, and morning routines that turn simple rest into a deeper act of devotion.
Mistress Heather shares the raw power of her “Bitch Bench,” where confession becomes both punishment and healing. Her submissive kneels, bares his truths, and receives whatever response she deems fit — a ritual that merges erotic control, honesty, and emotional release in one of the most powerful Femdom dynamics imaginable.
Fear can be thrilling when it’s safe. Mistress Heather dives into the psychology of erotic fear, explaining why submissives crave the rush of scary scenarios, how Dommes use it to heighten surrender, and why trembling under her control can be one of the most intimate experiences in Femdom.
A bath for your submissive is not pampering—it is erotic control. By washing him, you strip away his autonomy, inspect his body, and tease him with denial or indulgence. Every sponge stroke and rinse reinforces your authority, turning water into a tool of power and submission.
Join our mailing list for instant access to our Weekly and Special Editions.