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FemdomU Magazine: Self-Administration of Punishment Protocol

You Are An Extension Of Your Domme

When reading this protocol, understand that your responsibility is nothing more than being a physical extension of your Domme. 

Punishment Device

The tool you use for self-administration must be pre-approved by the Command Domme.

Standard Punishment Protocol

Unless otherwise specified, follow this procedure for all self-administered punishments:

  1. Assignment of Strikes: You will be assigned a specific number of strikes that you must administer to yourself.
  2. Timeframe: In general, punishments must be carried out within 24 hours unless otherwise instructed. 
  3. Setting the Scene:
    • Perform the punishment fully naked while standing in front of a mirror.
    • Look yourself in the eye and reflect on why you are being disciplined.
  4. Execution:
    • Your hand serves as your Domme’s proxy—each strike represents her will, her guidance, and her discipline.
    • Count each strike out loud, followed by: “Thank you, <insert Domme’s name here>.”
  5. Eroticism is Prohibited:
    • As a submissive, you are not permitted to derive erotic pleasure from punishment.
    • If you experience an erection during punishment, document this in your post-punishment report and understand that you are not permitted to pleasure yourself afterward.

Post-Punishment Report

After completing your assigned punishment, you must submit a Post-Punishment Report detailing your experience and any relevant observations. The link is found in your Dashboard.


Dual Responsibilities for Safety

As a submissive, you hold dual responsibilities:

  1. Ensuring Your Own Safety:

    • Use your safewords appropriately to prevent unintended harm.
    • Understand that your Domme’s property (your body) should not be damaged beyond her intentions.
  2. Acting as Her Proxy:

    • While administering punishment to yourself, you are acting on her behalf.
    • The Dommes of the Magazine are strict disciplinarians, but we are not merciless—punishment should be enough to move past eroticism and into “ouch” territory, but not beyond.

Pain Management & Expectations

After a session, you may experience:
✅ Warmth on the skin
✅ Slight discomfort when sitting
✅ Pinkness in the affected area

🚫 However, there should be no cuts, welts, or bruises.
As her proxy, it is your responsibility to maintain control and moderate your strikes accordingly.

While we are all fully capable of pushing a submissive to tears and leaving serious marks when necessary, that is not the goal here. These punishments are about discipline, not extremes.

Your pain level should generally stay within a 5 or 6 on the scale below.


BDSM Punishment Pain Scale

This scale helps submissives provide feedback on corporal punishment while guiding Dominants in observing visual and behavioral cues. Since pain tolerance varies, use this as a general guideline, not an absolute.

Pain Scale & Descriptions

Level Sub’s Feedback Visual Cues Dominant’s Notes
0 – No Pain “No discomfort.” Skin remains unchanged. Used for warm-ups or symbolic play.
1 – Mild Discomfort “I barely feel it.” Faint pinkness. Light psychological play.
2 – Light Pain “It stings a little.” Quick-fading pinkness. Good for prolonged sessions.
3 – Noticeable Pain “I can feel it now.” Warmer skin, some lasting pinkness. Balanced intensity, good for exploration.
4 – Moderate Pain “It’s starting to hurt more.” Light red coloring, warmth lingers. Escalates the intensity safely.
5 – Significant Pain “This is hard to ignore now.” Bright red skin, warmth persists. Requires regular check-ins.
6 – Intense Pain “This is getting hard to take.” Dark red skin, some swelling or raised marks. Trust and preparation needed.
7 – Severe Pain “I’m close to my limit.” Visible welts, swelling, lingering marks. Advanced play; pause for consent.
8 – Extreme Pain “I don’t know if I can take much more.” Major welts, minor skin breaks, bruising. Edge play only with explicit consent.
9-10 – Unbearable Pain “STOP NOW!” Severe swelling, extensive bruising, bleeding. Immediately stop. Medical care may be necessary.

Getting This Protocol Right

Your pain tolerance and limits will be openly discussed to ensure the protocol is applied correctly. We do not expect self-inflicted punishment to be extreme, but always err on the side of caution if uncertain.


duckie’s Shared Punishment

Remember: All punishment lashings for the month are combined and administered to duckie during the punishment ceremony.

🔥 Madam Nora will administer duckie’s punishment, which will undoubtedly be at a much higher level on the pain scale than what you will endure.


This ensures discipline remains structured, safe, and effective. If you have any questions, ask before proceeding.

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