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5 Ways I Plan To Improve as a Submissive Man

by ohtoole | May 22, 2026 | 12 comments

Become a Better Listener and Observer
Pay attention to every detail of instructions, change in moods, likes and dislikes, anticipate her needs ahead of time. Make sure her needs are met in a timely manner. Her needs are my only priority.
Don’t Make the Same Mistake Twice
Learn from my mistakes, so that I can better serve and please. Work on details that will make her daily life and time more productive and pleasurable. Do not take criticism personally, it’s an opportunity to grow and to serve.
Practice Healthy Habits
Continue with good hygiene, exercise regularly, and eat well. Avoid letting my body get run down physically or mentally. Keep a good mental attitude and remember how lucky I am to be serving her.
Remember My “Oath of Submission”
Remember every day: I am here to serve and submit. She is a strong and dominant woman who has the right to dominate me. I am here to commit myself to her, to be loyal to her, and that it is an honor to serve and submit to her every day.
Practice Good Manners and Be Respectful
I will maintain the correct pose and eye contact in her presence. I will always speak with honesty and respect to continue building trust, to make sure she can always rely on my loyalty.

ohtoole

Ohtoole has dedicated his life to serving others across the country. His body and mind now belong to the Matriarchy, serving the strong, dominant women of FemdomU. His background in the Femdom community began through exposure to strong, dominant women, leading to four years of experience serving a couple as a submissive. Through extensive travel, Ohtoole has learned the value of patience and working effectively with people from all backgrounds. View Full Profile

12 Comments

duckie on May 22, 2026 at 9:55 am

yo welcome to the team! you’re off to a great start, keep it up 🙂
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- ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 10:44 am
  
  duckie, thanks for your comment, support and help in getting me started. I’m excited to be able to share who I am with all of you and to get to know everyone and serve the strong women of FemdomU. Thanks again, ohtoole
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mr sub on May 22, 2026 at 10:07 am

Right on, bold profile pic – just add the hat and you’re naked zorro! Keep showing off and the ladies are going to loave playing with you. have fun!
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- ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 10:50 am
  
  mr sub, Thank you for your comments, I’d be happy to be Zorro or anyone else for the Dommes and ladies as long as it pleases them. I’m looking forward to being a part of the welcoming community of strong women of FemDomU. Thank you!
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Mistress Heather on May 22, 2026 at 10:09 am

Welcome to the Magazine, Mizz Geena tells me you’re lined up to be a writer. We’ll see if you have the brains as well as the body.
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- ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 10:56 am
  
  Mistress Heather, Thank you for taking the time to read my first FemDomU blog. I’m looking forward to learning to serve the dominant women of FemDomU and to contribute by writing something everyone will find interesting. Thank you again for your kind comments, Sincerely & submissively, ohtoole
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Zeek on May 22, 2026 at 11:56 am

Congrats on joining the team. I look forward to reading your stories and hearing about your own kinky experiences!
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- ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 12:14 pm
  
  Zeek, thanks for reading and commenting on my first FemDomU blog. I’m looking forward to sharing some writings with everyone, both fictional and from my own experiences. Is there anything more fun than sharing kinky experiences? Thanks again for your support. ohtoole
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Miss Autumn on May 22, 2026 at 12:29 pm

Looks like we have a daddy sub joining the ranks. Tell me, liltool, have you ever bent over for a powerful woman to enter you? So many of these volunteer boys are still anal virgins, what about you?
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- ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 12:38 pm
  
  Miss Autumn, Thank you for your comments on my first FemDomU blog, I appreciate your thoughts. Yes, my back door has been opened for business before and is open to any powerful woman who would like to peg me. The open for business sign at my back door is always “OPEN” to Dommes and strong women. The anal virgins don’t know what they’re missing. Thank you!
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exibishboy on May 22, 2026 at 2:10 pm

Welcome to FemdomU otoole. Your plan looks good and I’m sure you will enjoy your time here.
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- ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 2:27 pm
  
  HI exibishboy, Thanks for the welcome, I’m looking forward to being a part of the FemDomU community, serving and submitting. Love your photo gallery, shaven is a nice way to go. I’m looking forward to serving and meeting everyone. Thanks again for your welcome to FemDomU. Best, ohtoole
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