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5 Ways I Plan To Improve as a Submissive Man

by | May 22, 2026 | 18 comments

  1. Become a Better Listener and Observer
    Pay attention to every detail of instructions, change in moods, likes and dislikes, anticipate her needs ahead of time. Make sure her needs are met in a timely manner. Her needs are my only priority.
  2. Don’t Make the Same Mistake Twice
    Learn from my mistakes, so that I can better serve and please. Work on details that will make her daily life and time more productive and pleasurable. Do not take criticism personally, it’s an opportunity to grow and to serve.

  3. Practice Healthy Habits
    Continue with good hygiene, exercise regularly, and eat well. Avoid letting my body get run down physically or mentally. Keep a good mental attitude and remember how lucky I am to be serving her.
  4. Remember My “Oath of Submission”
    Remember every day: I am here to serve and submit. She is a strong and dominant woman who has the right to dominate me. I am here to commit myself to her, to be loyal to her, and that it is an honor to serve and submit to her every day.

  5. Practice Good Manners and Be Respectful
    I will maintain the correct pose and eye contact in her presence. I will always speak with honesty and respect to continue building trust, to make sure she can always rely on my loyalty.
ohtoole
Ohtoole has dedicated his life to serving others across the country. His body and mind now belong to the Matriarchy, serving the strong, dominant women of FemdomU. His background in the Femdom community began through exposure to strong, dominant women, leading to four years of experience serving a couple as a submissive. Through extensive travel, Ohtoole has learned the value of patience and working effectively with people from all backgrounds. View Full Profile

18 Comments

  1. duckie
    duckie on May 22, 2026 at 9:55 am

    yo welcome to the team! you’re off to a great start, keep it up 🙂

    Reply
    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 10:44 am

      duckie, thanks for your comment, support and help in getting me started. I’m excited to be able to share who I am with all of you and to get to know everyone and serve the strong women of FemdomU. Thanks again, ohtoole

      Reply
  2. mr sub
    mr sub on May 22, 2026 at 10:07 am

    Right on, bold profile pic – just add the hat and you’re naked zorro! Keep showing off and the ladies are going to loave playing with you. have fun!

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 10:50 am

      mr sub, Thank you for your comments, I’d be happy to be Zorro or anyone else for the Dommes and ladies as long as it pleases them. I’m looking forward to being a part of the welcoming community of strong women of FemDomU. Thank you!

      Reply
  3. Mistress Heather
    Mistress Heather on May 22, 2026 at 10:09 am

    Welcome to the Magazine, Mizz Geena tells me you’re lined up to be a writer. We’ll see if you have the brains as well as the body.

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 10:56 am

      Mistress Heather, Thank you for taking the time to read my first FemDomU blog. I’m looking forward to learning to serve the dominant women of FemDomU and to contribute by writing something everyone will find interesting. Thank you again for your kind comments, Sincerely & submissively, ohtoole

      Reply
  4. Zeek
    Zeek on May 22, 2026 at 11:56 am

    Congrats on joining the team. I look forward to reading your stories and hearing about your own kinky experiences!

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 12:14 pm

      Zeek, thanks for reading and commenting on my first FemDomU blog. I’m looking forward to sharing some writings with everyone, both fictional and from my own experiences. Is there anything more fun than sharing kinky experiences? Thanks again for your support. ohtoole

      Reply
  5. Miss Autumn
    Miss Autumn on May 22, 2026 at 12:29 pm

    Looks like we have a daddy sub joining the ranks. Tell me, liltool, have you ever bent over for a powerful woman to enter you? So many of these volunteer boys are still anal virgins, what about you?

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 12:38 pm

      Miss Autumn, Thank you for your comments on my first FemDomU blog, I appreciate your thoughts. Yes, my back door has been opened for business before and is open to any powerful woman who would like to peg me. The open for business sign at my back door is always “OPEN” to Dommes and strong women. The anal virgins don’t know what they’re missing. Thank you!

      Reply
  6. exibishboy
    exibishboy on May 22, 2026 at 2:10 pm

    Welcome to FemdomU otoole. Your plan looks good and I’m sure you will enjoy your time here.

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 22, 2026 at 2:27 pm

      HI exibishboy, Thanks for the welcome, I’m looking forward to being a part of the FemDomU community, serving and submitting. Love your photo gallery, shaven is a nice way to go. I’m looking forward to serving and meeting everyone. Thanks again for your welcome to FemDomU. Best, ohtoole

      Reply
  7. otta
    otta on May 22, 2026 at 4:27 pm

    Welcome to the team ohtoole, you’ll enjoy your time here i assure you that, and looking forward to read Your contributions.

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 23, 2026 at 7:10 am

      Hi otta, Thanks for your message and for reading my blog. I’m happy to be here and am looking forward to interacting with everyone. I’m sure I’ll enjoy my time here. It’s very liberating to be able to express myself as a submissive male to the dominant women of FemDomU. Thanks again, ohtoole

      Reply
  8. Thanuj
    Thanuj on May 22, 2026 at 7:19 pm

    Congratulations Ohtoole, Welcome to FemdomU

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 23, 2026 at 7:13 am

      Hi Thanuj, Thanks for being so welcoming. I feel very comfortable here at FemDomU, like I’ve found the home and the people I’ve been looking for all this time. Thanks again.

      Reply
  9. eleven
    eleven on May 23, 2026 at 9:01 am

    Welcome along ohtoole, looks like a great post with some sound points on there.

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    • ohtoole
      ohtoole on May 23, 2026 at 11:46 am

      HI eleven, Thanks for checking out my 1st blog. Everyone has been so helpful and welcoming. I read your “Commanded to Perform for the Stranger – His Path to Obedience”, I enjoyed your blog too. I’m looking forward to learning from everyone and becoming a better submissive male. I hope I’ll be able to perform like you in your blog. Thanks again, ohtoole

      Reply

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