5 Ways I Plan to Improve as a Submissive Man
by volsub17 | May 22, 2025 |
I want to improve as a submissive man. That’s something I believe in. But I’ve come to the realization over the past few years that “improving as a submissive man” is practically the same as “improving as a man.”
Submissive men, and all men for that matter, need to listen better. Most problems between men and women could be solved if the man simply listened, submissive or not.
Another way I plan to improve as a submissive man is to bring an old adage to fruition: “Happy Wife, Happy Life.” Perhaps “Happy Domme, Happy Calm.” I may need to work on that.
A third way for me to improve is to learn and develop skills that would be useful for my Domme. It’s a blessing to have someone at your disposal who could fix things in your house without having to scour the internet or make phone calls just to get a smelly stranger to stomp around your personal space, expecting to get paid more than they’re worth.
A fourth way that I’ve been working on to become a better sub is to rewire my brain to put my own orgasms out of my mind completely. It’s almost impossible to be sure, but I can withstand edging and chastity longer than I ever thought I could. This also helps the Femdom Prime Directive: her pleasure over yours, at all times. When her pleasure becomes your pleasure, you’ve hit the sweet spot.
The final way I can improve as a submissive man is to take care of myself mentally and physically. Without that, I’d be rather useless, wouldn’t I? I want to be useful to my Domme. If I’m not useful, what kind of sub am I. A lame one.
I want my Domme to look forward to be served by me. And I will do my utmost to make that a reality.
welcome to the team!
Welcome Harrison, looking forward to reading your posts and stories!
Welcome Harrison, It will be good to have a new fiction writer on the team. I look forward to seeing your contributions.
Thanks, Mistress Heather. It’s great to be here.
Welcome to the team Harrison.
Thank you so much, NurseDomme Jessica.
Welcome Harrison. Woth.upur credentials you.are sure.to excel with FemdomU.
I was walking while typing my welcome. Again Harrison welcome to FemdomU. With your credentials you sure to be a star here.
Thank you, exibishboy. Don’t tell anyone, but I was driving when I made my first blog post.😄
Thank you to all the Dommes and subs who’ve made me feel so welcome.
Welcome to the team, Harrison! Look forward to reading your work.
Welcome to the team!
Welcome to the team! Look forward to reading your stories.
Welcome to the Magazine Harrision. You certainly look like an obedient sub.
Are you going to be one of our obedient models?
Thank you, Mizz Autumn. I must admit that you’ve flustered me. I don’t know the answer to that. What’s your advice? 🤔
You want my advice? Then here it is: make yourself useful. Sign Mizz Geena’s modeling agreement. Be sure to check the box that says you accept private photo assignments from the Dommes. That’s the only kind of sub useful to me.
Once that’s done, get ready to strip and pose for me. I have a very particular angle I like to examine the subs by… a few of the other boys recently submitted.
He did ask for my advice, so yes, I’ve awarded him +10 Good boy points.
Now let’s see if he follows through. I’ll give him a few days. If he doesn’t? Well, I still have a rather generous stack of punishment points that need to be distributed before month’s end. I’d just love to put them to good use.
Miss Autumn, I AM obedient and want to be useful to you and the other Dommes here, so I’m going to ask Miss Geena for her modeling agreement.
I seem to have missed your welcome party but wanted to say hello and glad to have you on the team. You joined us on a date ruled by Gemini, a sign known for its sharp mind, versatility, and hunger for connection. It’s a powerful time to begin a journey, especially one that blends creativity with devotion.
As part of the magazine, you now serve something greater. I am pleased to welcome you into our world, where your dedication will not go unnoticed.
I appreciate your kind welcome and wise words, Goddess Barbara. I remembered to save you a piece of cake from the party.🎂
Welcome aboard! Great to have another writer join the team!