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5 Ways I plan to improve as a submissive man

by | Apr 16, 2026 | 17 comments

My first assignment, I find it it’s not an easy one, but what can I do, I have to prove myself.
I believe that as long as I’m living there’s always something new to learn.

Unowned sub it’s what I am, I found that the first thing I have to improve is

  1. Sharing and being in any kind of use to the BDSM community by any means, but didn’t know how to do it, until I stopped here at FemdomU and got all the support from Mizz Geena and duckie, and here I am working on the first thing, and really feeling home here.
  2. How to communicate and expressing myself, I’m very obedient and adapts easily it’s not my opinion but this is what the Mistresses I served say about me, sometimes I am afraid or don’t want to annoy or making my Mistress angry by something I want or want to explain it makes sometime things complicated, but if I could say it even if you got punished for it would change a lot of things.
  3. Limits , being afraid to have a marking or so on was for a long time with me, and my Mistresses accepted it but I surrendered it with time when I felt safe and loved, but came to I have to cross it and work on it because when accepting to submit I have to submit completely, I need a little more work on it.
  4. Taking more care of my health, I have to give more attention to my health (I’m fit for my age I’m 53 years old by the way) but need to take more of my diet routine and so on to be always fit to be worthy being noticed and serving.
  5. The Most important thing and this why I kept to end my first post with it, stop talking about me I have to learn more and more and here I am a lucky and blessed sub with You all Madams and subs, I started reading and will go with every writing here , from what I’ve read I knew that it’s real and serious, and real learning source for any Domme or sub.

 This all I don’t to make it long and will always do my best to be kept here, I truly feel I’m home.

otta
otta began his journey into submission in his early college years, exploring his identity without much guidance until he found a like-minded, dominant partner who helped him embrace his true nature. Over time, he grew through committed relationships as a trained, live-in submissive known for his attention to detail, a trait rooted in his lifelong passion for photography and art, which he later turned into a professional career. BDSM is central to his life and creative expression, and he now brings that passion to FemdomU as one of our submissive male models, eager to share his experience, devotion, and growth. He views service as both a challenge and a form of personal healing, guided by the belief that true strength lies in surrender, devotion, and fully embracing who you are. View Full Profile

17 Comments

  1. duckie

    welcome to the team! looking forward to working with you – keep up the great work!

    Reply
    • otta

      Thank You duckie

      Mizz Geena and you are giving me a great support to show me the way and be useful

      i’m looking forward to always working with you.

      Reply
  2. Mistress Heather

    Welcome otta, I have seen some of the photos you’ve submitted to Mizz Geena. Well done – I look forward to seeing more of you in publication!

    Reply
    • otta

      Thank You Mistress Heather

      i’m extremely blessed and honored to be here, and glad that the photos was good, will always do all my best to keep on with the same level and better.

      and looking forward for more assignments.

      Reply
  3. mrsub

    Hey man, welcome to Femdomu! It sounds like Mizz Geena is already pleased with your work so keep it up! Do better then me and you’ll survive! 🙂

    Reply
    • otta

      Thank you mrsub

      Mizz Geena is giving me real support and showed me my way here along with duckie , so this is the least i can do to prove to her that i can be worthy Her time She gave to me.

      will always do all my best to be worthy kept here.

      Reply
  4. exibishboy

    Welcome to FemdomU otta. I can relate to your comments on taking care of your health. I’m 67 yrs old myself. Maybe you could give me some tips on photography as I’m always eager to show myself on FemdomU. Again welcome.

    Reply
    • otta

      Thank you exibishboy

      it’ll be my pleasure to go ahead with you in photography, my passion, i’m a photography instructor by the way too.

      so whenever you need anything it’ll always be my pleasure to work with you.

      Reply
  5. eleven

    Welcome Otta,

    Great first post, openness and willingness to learn im sure you’ll do well and fit in fine. Speaking first hand from my time here also made me take accountability for my health or certainly awareness of it so hope you get the same empowerment i did.

    Reply
    • otta

      Thank You eleven

      i appreciate your words and your spirit, i hope to myself as with each second i’m getting more and more attached.

      Reply
  6. Autumn

    Welcome new boy. I’ve glanced at a few photos Mizz Geena shared with us – very good photography. I’m always interested in a particular view. Look in your task list – I’m giving you a special command.

    Reply
    • otta

      Thank You Miss Autumn,

      i really feel home here, i’m Honored that my photos made this good impact,
      i’ve checked the assignment and will do all my best to meet Your expectations Madam.

      Reply
  7. Zeek

    Hey man, welcome to the Magazine. Let me know if you need anything as you get settled in.

    Reply
    • otta

      Thank you Zeek

      for sure i would get to you whenever i need anything and maybe on a professional level too.

      Reply
  8. levi

    Welcome to the team! Good luck and have fun!

    Reply
  9. Usagi

    Welcome otta!

    Reply
  10. Mistress Meghan

    Welcome, Otta. I look forward to seeing more of you.

    Reply

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