Considering some new forced-bi dynamics with Cody. He’s agreed to try if I want, which works for me. But I’m not really interested in him being a bottom for another man. My fantasy? Making him be the top.

I have a friend from work—a gay man I trust with personal details. He’s willing, even eager, to be the bottom in this scenario. Now I’m debating whether I want Cody in bondage for it or not. A little restraint might add to the power dynamic, but part of me wants to see him struggle with the control in a different way.

Decisions, decisions.