Dominants expend energy during scenes—physically, emotionally, and psychologically. They may experience what’s known as “Domme drop,” a sudden wave of exhaustion, self-doubt, or sadness that hits after the adrenaline fades. Don’t assume your Domme always has it handled. Offer aftercare if she’s open to it. That might mean a warm towel, a glass of water, or simply a quiet moment of gratitude. Ask her how she’s feeling. Check in the next day, too. Submissives who show care after the climax of a scene are often the ones who get called back again and again.

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