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I’ve read and have repeatedly heard, over years, that boys should ejaculate no less frequently than every 10-14 days.
My group heads to the other end of the spectrum: to maximize cum production while also strengthening individual ejaculations without compromising boys’ command of their cocks.
The metrics (which we consistently fail to exercise, suggesting that not unlike service to maintain pussy familiarity, a schedule is needed … goodness, is there no end to the need for women’s oversight and control?:
1 – every week we measure each boy’s ejaculation volume and strength, expecting to never see a decline in performance . We’ve learned what factors and practices (like water consumption) reinforce this and hold Dommes feet to the fire to ensure the boys remain conscientious.
2 – every 6 mos, every boy cums repeatedly, to exhaustion. The first is just like (1) above, then again an hour later, and then every hour until he shoots a blank, at which point his prostate is messaged to eeek out the last drops. It’s is all collected and measured, each ejaculation and then the total. This trains quick regeneration.
It’s a competition. The boys are compared.
There are other rules which encourage Dommes to make their boys maximize production and to deter cheating.
So, in my group we all love cum and want to see a lot of it.
Now – because here at the magazine I learned of Semenology (the bartenders guide) and distributed it to my Ladies – we’re about to tell the boys they’re to up their games, that we must have more cum. Fun!!
So, at the opposite pole from ejaculation denial is “more, boy, more … now!! “
No health concerns here (except perhaps wearing holes in cock flesh).
You are correct – long, sustained lack of orgasms can cause issues. I like your plan!
Oh, as a point of interest, the biggest cummer in our group happens, at last measure, to be the smallest cock.
Another point, from what I’ve read, to be expected for simple fertility reasons, men decline past age 50. My group’s practice – making cum production a priority – has definitely helped keep krissi in the game.
Oh, to your main point: it does make a considerable difference that the boys want to compete, but not just to beat their buddy but to get their Domme’s pat on the head.
This must be managed closely. Particularly with things like cock size. (Which in the end may prove intractable).
The unity of my group will be destroyed if competition is ever allowed to descend to resentment.
Mistress Meghan – your men are being constantly compared to one another, drawing on that male instinct to compete. I wonder how big of an improvement it makes in their performance, over being trained and living in a just a single D/s environment. I’d think it must be considerable!
And cock size absolutely does not equate to cum volume. Big balls though?
Yes. Big balls
But how big? I’ve yet to find a way to repeatably measure them., tho. Once saw a – what to call it – a “thing” – an aluminum block with a hole in the middle that golfers squeeze their balls through to check for circularity, to see if any have gone out of round.
Gave me an idea.
But testicles aren’t round. … so much for that notion.
Krissi has some machinists tools and I’ve measured his balls with his dial caliper. But, honestly, it’s just too much; requires too much precision to be fun (fun for Ladies – what this is supposed to be).
Today there are scanning devices which could do all this in a snap; not only testicles and sacs but their cocks too. But like the device Domme Jessica told us about, for accurately measuring just how hard a hard cock is, these are professional instruments and are expensive. So, it’s a question of how far we want to go to get comparable stats. If we all share the expense … anyway, we’ve not discounted these possibilities entirely.
We continue to consider these things because the biggest part.of the whole construct is being believable … fucking with the boys’ minds. They must believe we expect results so they focus and commit.
Next week we’re kicking off the penis enlargement experiment. The boys know that we expect them to get bigger, month to month. That is: they BELIEVE!! Trust me, my ladies will be grim-faced about it!!
I believe I’ve described the “kit” and procedure we will use. Took some time to come to agreement. Now everyone has the kit and we’ll start.
Obviously, the boys actually are guinea pigs …
And it’s all a “dog show”; about Dommes getting their subs to be all they can be: bigger, higher performing cocks. Bigger more productive balls, swinging lower.
My ladies agree that lower hanging balls are more attractive – provide more viewing pleasure – and now we’ve agreed how to stretch them.
Again, everyone using the same technique and stuff.
For their balls we’ll use magnetic steel weights. In the end, in keeping with one of our guiding principles, “Bigger is better,” there is no limit. We’ll stretch their sacs till balls clatter around knees, if we can. Ha!!
Now, if there was just a way to make the balls bigger … Other than constantly raising cum production, I’ve not found it. Tell me it wouldn’t be exciting to have a foot-long sac swinging from the weight of two tennis ball sized nuts behind a 15 x 3”’cock? Now this would make a package!!
Please understand that competition is not only about the boys’ individual abilities but also Dommes paying attention and keeping them focused … a dog show. … we all know that men are, in an essence, dogs.
Have some questions. Thought I posted these yesterday, but now seems not.
For NurseDomme Jessica, Mizz Geena, Miss Heather, Goddess Sinclair, … anyone who might have experience or know answers:
About Semenology – a FemDom Bartender’s Guide l(which I first learned of a month or so ago from a post by Madam Sinclair) … my Ladies are intrigued about making cum a staple mixer and garnish.
So, can it be refrigerated? For how long? What happens if it’s frozen?
What’s the “shelf life?” Is there a difference between the ejaculate of a vasectomized cock which shoots blanks and the normal full Monte? (Would seem so).
What do sperm banks do?
Oh my gosh. Before I could even finish reading it all, this page put me in a needy state! All this talk from professional Ladies to other professional Ladies about tease and denial, edging, and we poor saps with prostates… it had me tugging myself furiously, almost helplessly. The feeling had been building up from visiting several other pages on this site, for the first time today, but this was the last straw. After reading Nursedomme Jessica’s advice to “Enjoy the tease…” and merely skimming some hot phrases from Mistress Meghan, I had to pay an emergency visit to the Galleries — also for the first time — where I quickly, feverishly, settled on https://femdomu.com/femdom-trampling-platform/ for a spectacular and vocal end to my own edging (a mere two hours, mostly here on this website). Hopefully when I return later, I’ll be able to think more clearly and leave some lucid commentary, as I did on two or three other pages since I signed up just hours ago.