For me my thoughts on this do change and vary probably mainly down to mood or feelings.

For me though I’m between the ‘would have a bisexual experience for her’ and ‘I would never’. Probably leaning more towards the yes than a hard no though.

This is probably easy for me as chances are slim to none, but it is something as part of the mindset that I feel I should be open to if my dominant or in this case my wife requested it. Obviously there would be the whole potential for a discussion on the ‘who’ but the main thing is to put the wants and needs of her above my own.

But on a more serious note I do try to keep with the approach of try everything once, maybe twice to both get over the shock factor but then to actually form an opinion of it. Now I can’t see any reason why this would be different.

So I think it would be a case of as long as it was discussed properly either well ahead or certainly at the minimum before the occasion (rather than just a knock at the door and away it goes!). But this ensures thoughts and concerns can be voice, discussed and hopefully reassured.

I’d be curious to read on the reasonings for anyone that is firmly in the ‘hard no’ camp though.