Position that is, we were asked to pick, pose and post our favourite position.

I initially went with number 3 for mine, stood up tall, spread and vulnerable. But then I decided to change for a couple of reasons.

The first being that I felt number 10 was more ‘ready’ to be used, taken or played with depending on how you look at it bent over ready and waiting.

But then with this one the position is also lower in terms of head position, which could be lowered, or eyes up at the dominant as they approach, circle or lock eyes in return.

So for me, I’d pick number 10.