Each Domme I’ve served at FemdomU has left marks on me. Not just welts or bruises — though there have been those too — but deeper imprints. Lessons I didn’t even know I needed until they were carved into me. Here’s what I carry with me from each of them.
Mizz Geena taught me how to be joyful in my servitude. The two days I spent in her home were magical. Her house is a whirlwind of order and play, and watching her balance discipline with laughter showed me that submission isn’t about misery. It’s about devotion. I learned to serve with a smile. To be useful and still be human. Moving forward, I’ll try to bring that lightness into everything I do — even when I’m crawling.
Mistress Heather has always shown me what professionalism looks like in domination. She is precision. Her words are few, but they land like strikes. She doesn’t need to raise her voice. Her expectations are the law. From her, I learned the importance of showing up, shutting up, and doing the work. I plan to honor that by being consistent, reliable, and silent when I need to be.
Domme Jessica broke through my denial. She’s the one who forced me to face the truth about my limits, my habits, my health, and my head. Her medical kink always comes with a dose of reality, and she’s the reason I finally went to therapy. I owe her more than I can put into words. I plan to keep working on myself — because she made it clear I don’t get to fall apart on her watch.
Madam Nora is gravity. She holds this whole universe together, and when she speaks, it’s with a clarity that makes you feel seen and small. Her expectations don’t bend. She gave me an ultimatum — not because she wanted to be rid of me, but because she wanted me to rise. And I plan to. If she still allows it, I will prove her trust wasn’t misplaced.
Every Domme has changed me. Sharpened me. Broken and rebuilt me. If I get to stay, I will carry their teachings forward in everything I write, everything I serve, everything I am.
levi I dont know what all you have been thru but, reading your comments from the last few days I think you will be very successful in coming back and flourish. If you ever need a sounding board hit me up.
thanks man!
I think Exibish is right here, we’re seeing a lot from your posts about your journey and your struggle.
It sounds like this structure has been perfect in supporting your ability to get back up and push forward.
You reached a point where your head was under water, you had friends come pull you out, you’ve had the structure and support to get you back on your feet.
You now are at a point where you are able to talk about it, which I think is the main powerful part here. Ensuring readers know that there are people that will jump in and pull you back up, they may well see the signs that you don’t. The main part is getting back up, brushing yourself down and carrying on.