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March 14

by | Mar 15, 2025 | 6 comments

Everyone here I am sure is fully aware of the significance of February 14th, but I’m not sure if everyone is aware of the same for March 14th. Perhaps it’s just a regional thing but when we were living in Ontario before moving to the Atlantic region, March 14th was affectionately referred to as “Steak and a Blow Job Day.”

This was probably a male’s idea but while February 14th is considered female-centric so in the male mind it’s only fair to have a male-equivalent day with a male focus. As men tend to enjoy steaks and blow jobs, someone decided that this should be for females to serve their men one month after Valentine’s Day.

I suppose for some couples this arrangement is perfectly fine, although I am truly not sure how often this is observed. PS definitely picked up on this concept from the moment he first heard of it. For PS, however, we were already in the midst of our current arrangement where he’s already signed our FLR contract where he is my property where everything about his orgasms (frequency and method) are completely under my control.

So, no steak and a blow job for him on March 14th… we have a different arrangement.

Much like PS’s balls much earlier in our relationship, March 14th has been claimed by myself for my needs and desires.

So now like other significant days, my little Pussy Slave husband is expected to service me orally to orgasm. This year I made sure to remind him of how lucky he is that I have taken March 14th from him, so he has the honour of eating pussy instead of having to endure the silliness of expecting his Goddess to drain my balls by oral technique. I remind him that allowing him to orgasm is going to reduce his desire to satisfy my needs which are his primary needs of our relationship as of the signing of our FLR. To reinforce this, I asked him if he understood this and if he agreed which of course he did. I am certain to make sure I hear him tell me that he appreciates and enjoys the fact that I have taken this from him and have it applied to and benefit myself (and by extension, him).

And this arrangement applies to March 14th as well as the 7 days beforehand.

Our next celebration day is April 15th. This is to celebrate the day I claimed PS’s balls. I like this day for that reason, demanding to own his balls as I had them grabbed and squeezed until the triumphant moment that he acquiesced to my non-negotiable demand, but also because this was not in my nature at this time and the first step towards the evolution to the day that my husband “officially” stopped being my equal and gave that up to become my property and Pussy Slave.

 

Lady CM
Lady CM is a captivating and thoughtful voice in the Femdom and FLR (Female-Led Relationship) communities. Known for her strong yet balanced approach to dominance, she has cultivated a unique dynamic with her husband, PS, that exemplifies mutual respect, submission, and control. As a Guest Domme for FemdomU Magazine, Lady CM shares her candid experiences and insights, offering readers an intimate look into her evolving journey as a dominant woman in a deeply fulfilling FLR. View Full Profile

6 Comments

  1. exibishboy

    Lady CM, I have never heard of that myself. I doubt that kind of “holiday” would ever gain ground in the states.

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  2. Mizz Geena

    Wonderful, thanks for sharing! I think I’d heard of this ridiculous attempt of a reverse valentine’s day. I’m sure your pussyslave husband was very grateful for you to save him from such a ridiculous idea as “steak and a bj”

    I absolutely love the idea of making sure that date is reclaimed. I’m going to put this on the agenda for the Dommes to vote on making March 14 an official FemdomU observed day!

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    • Lady CM

      I love this idea and would love to see it happen, especially knowing I’m the catalyst for it.

      What are you thinking? Mandatory pussy eating in response to the blowjob aspect of the day?

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      • Mizz Geena

        Perhaps! Of course, that’s just a day ending in y for many of our subs, so we’ll need to think of an additional aspect.
        Maybe something to do with the ‘steak’ portion – I’d enjoy a good steak dinner!

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  3. Lady CM

    Interesting that no one else has heard of this, as it apparently didn’t originate in Canada although that is where I’d heard of it.

    I Googled it and found this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steak_and_Blowjob_Day

    I also realized that while not particularly important, PS and I have no idea what day it was that he lost his balls to me. It was just for fun at the time early in our relationship where neither of us had any idea that we’d becoming lifetime partners. April 15th is a convenient date to celebrate and reinforce PS’s position and expectation to submit, obey, and serve, between March 14th and Mother’s Day.

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  4. Mistress Heather

    I had heard of this, but I don’t think it even would have hit Cody’s radar as anything in the realm of possibility!

    Having celebration dates are important, and glad to hear you have PS trained so well and have complete control over his orgasms. I’ve assigned him some good-boy points in his volunteer dashboard.

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