My slight bisexual experience that I didn’t know was Femdom
by ouchie | Sep 23, 2026 |
Many, many years ago, more than I care to admit. I was part of a group that would go to a bar every Thursday. There was many different ages, sexual orientations and single/married people within the group. This story is about one of the married couples one amazing night.
Every time they would join our group the two of them would always sit near me. I always thought it was because of my amazing sense of humor and how I always made people feel at ease. Or maybe because I was the only one who would do Tequila shots with them. I later found out it was because I was selected to join them in a little fun. Apparantly he liked to watch and sometimes not watch his wife have sex with others. Either they didn’t know it was called cuckold, or they didn’t like that term. I certainly had no idea what it was. I was just excited I was about to get laid.
They had me come back to their house for what she promised to be a night I would never forget. It certainly turned out that way. While we were in the bedroom kissing and groping each other her husband was off in the kitchen making a drink. I thought he was going to stay there, nope she had plans for him. She was directing him where to sit, what to pay attention to, and kept telling him not to touch himself. I stupidly thought ahe was just being playful and teasing him so I didn’t pay that much attention. Then I felt a hand on my calf, if my face wasn’t buried in her lap I might have stopped everything. As his hand moved up and the realization set in on who was touching me she began giving me commands. Telling me this is OK, and she hopes I’ll continue to let it happen. When a gorgeous, confident Woman is whispering in your ear you rarely say no.
Under her command her explored a lot of my body with his hands and mouth. All night as his wife and I had sex he would be right there looking, licking, and squeezing. I say this is only a slight bisexual experience because neither of us guys penetrated each other. I don’t know if in the moment I would have if I’m being honest. I do know that I would love to recreate that night and see what happens when I’m commanded to do more acts.
What an interesting memory, ouchie. You entered that house expecting one kind of experience and discovered that she had planned something far more complicated. Her confidence and control clearly allowed you to remain open to something you had never considered, and it is telling that you now remember the experience with curiosity rather than regret.
I do need to point out that bisexual contact does not need to include penetration to “count.” His touching, licking, and exploring your body made this a genuine bisexual experience, even if your attraction and primary focus remained on her.
Today, I would also expect that possibility to be discussed before anyone touched you. Her whispering that it was okay was seductive, but it was not a substitute for obtaining your consent. If you ever recreate that night, keep the commanding woman and the exploration, but add clear negotiation beforehand. Then you can discover how much further you are willing to go with excitement rather than surprise.