The show and tell item for me that represents my submission would be my collar.

Although perhaps a very typical piece, it is one that came as a milestone here that I felt proud and privileged to have earnt complete with its collaring ceremony.

I almost went with my chastity cage, but after some thought felt that was more of an item to show my commitment to remove focus from my wants and needs to that of others – specifically my wife.

Yet to be collared is a common and typical item I felt that not only symbolised submission, but collaring was my acceptance of being in service to the Dommes here at FemDomU, marking my journey to this point and finally a reminder that while participating and contributing here that it is with purpose.

I think in addition to the above, and maybe even rated above those points is that I can be proud while wearing it, knowing it represents my journey down the path of submission.