Proud to Show & Tell – My Collar
by eleven | Sep 10, 2026 |
The show and tell item for me that represents my submission would be my collar.
Although perhaps a very typical piece, it is one that came as a milestone here that I felt proud and privileged to have earnt complete with its collaring ceremony.
I almost went with my chastity cage, but after some thought felt that was more of an item to show my commitment to remove focus from my wants and needs to that of others – specifically my wife.
Yet to be collared is a common and typical item I felt that not only symbolised submission, but collaring was my acceptance of being in service to the Dommes here at FemDomU, marking my journey to this point and finally a reminder that while participating and contributing here that it is with purpose.
I think in addition to the above, and maybe even rated above those points is that I can be proud while wearing it, knowing it represents my journey down the path of submission.
eleven, your collar may be a traditional symbol, but there is nothing ordinary about what yours represents. You earned it through consistent service, completed a formal collaring ceremony, and continued growing until you became our Headboy. I appreciate your distinction between the cage, which redirects your personal desires, and the collar, which represents your broader commitment to serve FemdomU and its Dommes with purpose. You have every reason to wear it proudly because it does not merely show that you are submissive. It reflects the journey, trust, responsibility, and service that brought you to your present place among us.