Punishment is an integral part of the dynamic between a dominatrix and her submissive. It’s a thrilling dance of power and control that can range from the playful to the severe. Today, I’m excited to introduce you to a creative and exhilarating way to administer punishment: the Punishment Roulette. This innovative method involves creating a spinning wheel that determines the punishment doled out. Whether you’re looking to spice up playtime or enforce behavior modification, the Punishment Roulette adds an element of surprise and suspense that heightens the experience for both parties.

Create Your Wheel

Creating a punishment wheel is simpler than you might think. You can purchase a ready-made spinning wheel from Amazon (like this one) or explore various free online tools that allow you to customize your own digital wheel. Simply search Google for “Free Wheel Spinner” to find lots of options. Check out the FemdomU Punishment Wheel at the end of this post!

Deciding the Punishments: Before you start, decide what kinds of punishments you want to include. Are these going to be all fun, sexy-time punishments, or will there be real consequences for misdeeds? A mix of both can keep things exciting and unpredictable.

The Punishment Wheel: Fun Time

Using the punishment wheel during sexy fun time can turn a routine session into an electrifying game of chance. Imagine your submissive, naked and bound in your dungeon, eyes fixed on the wheel as it spins. His breath quickens with anticipation, heart racing as he watches the arrow pass over various punishments.

Scenario: He’s already panting after a round of spankings. You spin the wheel and he sees options like “10 lashes with the whip,” “15 smacks with the paddle,” “5 minutes of teasing,” and “10 strokes with the crop.” The wheel slows, and the arrow lands on “15 smacks with the paddle.” You see a mix of relief and dread in his eyes as you pick up the paddle and approach him. The thrill of not knowing what’s coming next heightens his submissive state and your dominant pleasure.

The Punishment Wheel: Behavior Modification for Bad Boys

The punishment wheel can also be a powerful tool for behavior modification. When your submissive has misbehaved, let the wheel determine his fate. This method ensures a fair yet unpredictable consequence for his actions, instilling a sense of accountability.

Scenario: Your submissive has once again neglected to put the toilet seat down. It’s a minor infraction, but you’ve had enough. You decide to use the punishment wheel to address this recurring issue. You bring him to the wheel, explaining that his fate will be decided by chance. The wheel could land on “extra chores,” “a night in the kennel,” “a week without orgasm,” or “an hour of corner time.”

Spinning the Wheel: As he watches the wheel spin, the fear and anticipation in his eyes remind him of the importance of following your rules. The arrow lands on “a night in the kennel.” He knows that even for small infractions, there are real consequences.

Administering the Punishment: Make sure he understands why he’s being punished and reinforce your expectations. The randomness of the wheel adds an extra layer of discipline, ensuring he thinks twice before disobeying again.

Their Wheels of Punishment

We got all our subs at the magazine to either create a new wheel with their Domme, or share the one they already use. This could give you some more ideas on your own devious Wheel of Punishment!

duckie’s Wheel of Punishment

(duckie is the devoted submissive and property of Madam Nora Sinclair, the Managing Editor of FemdomU Magazine.)

Madame has instructed me to share with you what is currently displayed on my punishment wheel. It hangs prominently on the wall outside of my bedroom and has been a fixture for the past few years. I try my best to avoid it, as it is reserved for when Madame deems that I have done something wrong or need to be disciplined. These are true punishments for me, so I am constantly striving to be on my best behavior and avoid the wheel’s consequences. However, I still end up spinning it an average of twice a week, as sometimes Madame decides that I need to be punished regardless of my behavior.

Here’s what’s currently on my wheel:

• Cock Locked 5 Days: This one is self-explanatory – I’m locked in chastity for five frustrating days.
• Milking Station +5 Minutes: Madame’s Milking Station is a contraption I set in, and it stimulates my prostate and my cock with a combination of thrusting and electric shocks. When the wheel lands here, I have a session that is an additional five minutes longer than my last one. These can truly push me to the edge of sanity with enforced pleasure.
• Spend 1 Night in Kennel: Sleeping in the kennel for a night is a humbling experience that reinforces my place.
• Lick Mister’s Toes: Madame has authorized me to explain that she will occasionally have a romantic male partner. This person is referred to as Mister by myself and other subs. Madame knows that I will do anything for her, I worship her in any way she’ll let me. However, I’m not fond of doing the same to her Misters. When the wheel lands here, in an act of service and humiliation, I must lick Mister’s toes until he’s satisfied.
• Mister’s Valet 1 Week: Another humiliating punishment. I must attend to Mister’s needs for an entire week, including helping him dress and undress, drawing his baths or showers, and any other tasks he needs to accomplish.
• Be The Bunny: Madame finds this hilarious. She has a bunny costume, complete with a big fluffy pink head that I wear – only she’s removed the pants and I have to wear a bunny-tail ass plug. Then there’s a special dance I must do as Madame gives me additional instructions. If the wheel lands here, she makes sure to time the punishment for maximum humiliation – when she can have a guest or two over to watch.
• Baaah: This one turns my cheeks red. I asked Madame if we could skip this, and she told me I must share. So, here’s what happens if the wheel lands on this space – I fuck a blow-up sheep. It’s really embarrassing – it’s an adult novelty she purchased years ago – I think she must have a carton of them. I have to blow it up, get myself hard, and then fuck the fake sheep in its ass, which has a tight hole for just such a thing. I don’t know if there’s a big demand for these things in farming communities, but I have a hard time getting and staying hard without imagining I’m fucking something else. However, Madame always makes sure that the whole thing is a spectacle.
• Handwrite Essay: Writing a long, detailed essay on a topic chosen by Madame, often reflecting on my behavior and how I can improve.
• Mistress P. Mistress P. is Madame’s long-time friend. If the wheel lands on this space, I know I’m in for it. Mistress P. has the experience, strength, and stamina equal to Madame. However, Mistress P. does not have any compassion or sympathy for me, so the punishments tend to leave me in a special kind of pain.
• Lose a Toy: Losing access to one of my favorite toys for a week, is a reminder to cherish what I’m given.
• Eat Broccoli at Dinner for 1 Week: Forced to eat broccoli at every dinner, a small but significant punishment for me.

Shawn’s Wheel

(Shawn is the Managing Editor of FemdomU Magazine, and a submissive to his wife)

We set up this game, and my wife had a blast coming up with different “punishments.” She already uses a clicker system, which I discussed in my previous article, so each week she clicks whenever she feels like I need to be punished. And when the time comes for me to pay, the number on the clicker determines how many punishments I will receive. The wheel decides what those punishments will be. However, the uncertainty lies in how many times she will spin the wheel during one session. For instance, my weekly punishment might be 12, but she could end up spinning the wheel five times and giving me 12 of whatever comes up each time. I only know we’re done when she gives me one final smack on the ass.

Currently, it has these items:

• Miss Molly – A very thuddy flogger
• Smacks with “Lucy” (her favorite thin, stinging flogger)
• Paddles with the wooden one
• Dick slaps with wooden spoon
• Spankings by Jesus (she has a paddle with a studded cross)
• Spankings with Domme’s Choice
• The Spatula
• Indiana (her bullwhip)
• The Jackson 5 – a set of five switches, varying in width, length, sting

LEVI’s Wheel

(Levi is a writer for FemdomU Magazine, and is an Owned & Collared Service Sub)

As many of our readers are aware, I am in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend and Mistress, and we have a Female-Led Relationship (FLR). I am a service sub, dedicated to doing anything and everything for my Mistress. One of the main aspects of our dynamic is cuckolding. She thoroughly enjoys bringing other men into our relationship, while I find pleasure in being dominated and watching her engage in sexual activities with others. When she orders me to do something while she’s with Sir (the name I use for any man she is intimate with), I eagerly comply and put all my passion into it. Some may classify me as bisexual, but I only engage in same-sex activities under the direction of a dominant woman. It’s a turn-on for me, but I’m not generally attracted to men or interested in having sex with them on my own terms.

However, as her service sub, I typically am only required to “service” her, both sexually and by accomplishing tasks for her. Of course when we’re in a cuckolding session, that all changes. She’ll often have other men around she fucks, but they don’t expect me to wait on them hand and foot like I do for her. To put it frankly, I’m not expected to be their servant. However, she decided to make my Wheel of Punishments full of things that I absolutely find humiliating, degrading, and even disgusting. Here’s what’s on the wheel at the time of this writing:

• The Stuffed Pig: I really hate this one. She binds me, leaving me vulnerable and exposed like a pig on a spit at some extravagant banquet. A plug is inserted into my ass, and a ball gag silences any words I may try to utter. Then she brings in her Sir, and I get just a moment to see the man she’ll be fucking before she proceeds to blindfold me and put earplugs in my ears – effectively cutting off my senses. I can’t see or hear what’s happening, but I know they are fucking. Not being able to witness the act takes away the enjoyment I typically get from our usual cuckolding encounters and watching her be pleased by another.
• 50 OTK Spankings: Doesn’t sound too bad, right? Only this is by her Sir, and she seems to always find a guy who gets some thrill out of being able to spank a dude without holding back. These almost always leave me unable to sit for a while.
• Visit from Andy: Andy is my best friend, pretty much the only person I’ve been in touch with from before my contract with Mistress. And, he’s pretty much the only guy who I get really jealous of seeing fuck Mistress. So when the wheel lands here, I have to arrange a session with Andy, who always eagerly accepts with a fucking grin as I begrudgingly call him “Sir.”
• Buy Sir’s Underwear: I have to pay her current Sir to purchase the pair of underwear he has on. I must then, in front of both, masturbate into his underwear and then wear them for the rest of the session.
• Sleep on Couch: This means she’ll spend the night with Sir, fucking in our bed, and I have to sleep out on the couch, alone. I can hear them but not participate.
• Pretty Boy: I have to wear a sexy nightgown and makeup for our visit from Sir. Honestly, I am getting more and more into this, so she’ll probably move it off the punishments soon.
• Detail His Car: As it says – I have to clean and detail Sir’s car.
• Do His Laundry: I have to do all of Sir’s laundry for him.
• Jogging: This scenario is reserved for specific gentlemen who are also avid runners. I’ll have to keep up with him on a jog, and then when we return, she’ll give me instructions on how to undress him. The worst part? She knows that I am highly sensitive to scents and enjoy smelling every inch of her skin. But in this situation, she’ll make me smell his armpits, his groin, and even force me to bury my nose in there, taking in all the sweat. It makes me gag! Afterwards, I have to prepare their shower and while they are both in there, I have to wear his dirty and sweaty jogging clothes. Finally, once they finish their shower and they move to our bed, I’m allowed to take off his dirty clothes and clean myself.
• Tongue Bath: It’s another one of those disgusting tasks. She took something that brings me immense pleasure – licking her sweat after she works out, from every inch of her body, until I make my way to her delicate pussy and bring her to orgasm. The smell alone turns me on like nothing else. But in this twisted game of punishment and pleasure, it takes on a whole new meaning. I have to do the same for Sir after he finishes his workout in her personal gym. First, my tongue must trace the contours of his armpits, braving the pungent odor that threatens to make me gag. I trace along his pecs, torso, licking any trace of his sweat. Then, I am commanded to suck on each of his toes, coated with a thick layer of sweat and grime. And finally, as the ultimate act of servitude, he will bend over and I will have to rim him, my tongue delving into his moist, salty crevice until he deems it enough. The taste and smell of his sweat assaults my senses and reminds me of my place in this power dynamic.
• Chris hurts for you: Chris, a submissive man a few years older than me, is one of my girlfriend’s regular sexual partners. She usually chooses dominant, aggressive men, but Chris is different; he is a gentle lover who willingly submits to her during our sessions. He’s also always kind to me, even though I am at the bottom of their threesome dynamic. Despite this, Chris always makes sure that some of my needs are met as well. We have similar upbringings and he has become like a big brother to me in many ways. When my wheel lands on this space, it means that during Chris’ next visit, she will punish him for my mistake and make sure he knows it. Poor Chris has a low pain tolerance despite being submissive, and it breaks my heart to watch him take the punishment for my actions. The last time she made him cry with a harsh caning on his backside, and she forced me to maintain eye contact with him the entire time. By the end of that punishment, we were both in tears.
• Private Kiss: This is not as enjoyable as it may seem. I have to perform oral sex on Sir, which is done in private without her presence. Sir can do whatever he desires with me during these private sessions, and I don’t enjoy them at all.
• Sir’s Maid: This is a session that she’ll save for when she wants to use it with a specific Sir. I’ll have to go to his place and do some cleaning. It’s only happened twice before – the first time was easy, as the guy already had a housekeeper, so I was in and out within an hour. The second time, however, the guy was a complete mess. I ended up spending an entire day cleaning his chaotic dump of a place.
• Urinal: I am not at all pleased about this, and I initially didn’t want to write about it. However, Mistress insisted that I include it in my piece. If the game lands on “Urinal,” I am required to go to the outdoor shower completely nude while her Sir urinates on me. The truth is, I’ve never been a fan of golden showers. It’s something Mistress has used on me before, and because she was the one doing it, I found it enjoyable. But with her Sir, it becomes an entirely different and disgusting situation. Usually, I can handle him peeing on me and then immediately taking a shower. But if Mistress or her Sir are feeling particularly sadistic, things can get much worse. One of her Sirs in particular enjoys making me open my mouth as he practices his aim. I dislike him immensely.

Zeek’s Wheel

(Zeek is the Website Manager and a Contributor to FemdomU Magazine. He lives with his Domme wife)

When I got this assignment, my wife was away on one of her many business trips – it’s been happening a lot lately. I told her about the idea and she gladly tweaked it to fit our unique situation. We already have a challenge game that we play when she’s away, so she decided to make the wheel something I spin if she feels I deserve punishment while she’s gone. We had a blast coming up with ideas for the wheel – well, she came up with them and I tried to change them (unsuccessfully). So far, she’s only had me spin it twice. The first time was just for fun during our nightly FaceTime chat. She told me I was being punished for something I did in the past (whatever), and I spun the wheel to reveal “Jerk Off and Eat”. The second time, she was frustrated with me because I forgot to pick up her dry cleaning before her flight that morning. On our nightly call, she made me spin the wheel again and this time it landed on “Get 20 Naked Spankings”.

Here’s what’s on the wheel:

• Get 25 Spankings: Yeah, I have to find someone to spank me. At least this one is pants-on.
• Get 20 Naked Spankings: I asked and she confirmed – I need to find someone to spank me while I’m naked. This is the punishment I got my 2nd spin. Although there are other people I’m allowed to play with, I had no idea who I was going to get spankings from. Then I got a work-around – my little brother stopped by for beers. I explained the situation, he laughed but did the deed, and we filmed it for my proof. She accepted it, but said if I spin this punishment again, I’ll have to find someone else.
• Jerk Off and Eat: When it landed here, she had me do this immediately, on the Facetime call so she could observe. I have to shoot my load, catch it in my hand, and lick it all up. Bleh.
• Handwrite Letter to Madame: This one is embarrassing. I have to handwrite a letter outlining my transgression and mail it to Madame Nora, technically my boss. She and my wife have struck up a devious friendship, I’m not sure I like it.
• 15-min Sloppy BJ on Big Carl: We have a massive dildo that she has nicknamed “Big Carl.” Whenever the wheel lands on this option, I am obligated to give it a messy blowjob for 15 minutes. I must record the entire thing with my phone and send her the video. If she deems my performance subpar, she will make me do it again! So, I put in extra effort to make it sloppy, and deep, and even gag myself at times. And stop asking (duckie) I’m not sharing any videos with you!
• Fucked by Carl’s Big Bro: Carl is already too much for me to handle, but she recently purchased a larger version she named Carl’s Big Bro. It looks similar to Carl, but I swear it’s twice as thick and long. If the wheel lands here, she’ll use this monster on me when she returns home. We’ve only tried Big Bro once before when she first got the new toy. I gave up pretty quickly. She warned me that if it landed here, there would be no mercy this time.

Cody’s Wheel (Mistress Heather’s Husband

(Cody is the husband and devoted submissive of our Mistress Heather)

Heather created the wheel a while back, and we had a lot of fun with it. But, as time went on, we kinda forgot about it. That is until she brought it out for this challenge, and we couldn’t help but laugh at some of the things written on there like “5 hard spanks” and “Paddled for 10 minutes”. Those used to be considered punishments, but now they’re more like routine tasks. She updated the wheel though; now all my punishments are tasks around the house that I’ve been putting off. Last weekend, she felt I deserved punishment for my “poor attitude”, so I spun the wheel and ended up spending my Saturday afternoon painting the shed. I have a feeling she’ll keep finding reasons to give me punishments until I catch up on my honey-do list.