The FemdomU WHIP
New Doctor
Last week, krissi and I were running errands when an email came in for a same day appt at our dermatologist. Readers may recall that I helped our dermatologist through an [awful] divorce ten years ago, one thing led to another, helped her realize a naturally...
Respect the Recovery Window
Scenes take a toll, even when they feel incredible. Your muscles might be sore, your skin tender, and your nervous system overwhelmed from the adrenaline and endorphins. Emotionally, you may feel euphoric one minute and drained the next. Ignoring those signals puts...
A Perfect Cock [Uncanny continued – PART TWO]
At the end of part 1, Christopher had cum in Mollie’s ass, she’d drained it into a saucer to be a late-afternoon snack for a boy or two (once they arrive), and he and I were chatting. I was interested in his girlfriend, whom he says “swings” with him, and in what...
The Special Hell of Being Pegged While Locked
There is a very specific kind of frustration that only exists when you are being pegged while caged. It’s not just physical. It’s mental. It’s emotional. It’s humiliating in a way that rewires your brain. I love getting pegged. I’m not shy about that. She knows...
Opposite Day in My House
Tomorrow is Opposite Day, January 25. It is not an official observance, but it is one that kink culture has embraced for years. It is often used for role reversals, temporary power swaps, and structured inversion scenes, always negotiated and consensual. In my...
Panty Training Diaries – Task 2: When Private Became Public
Hello Everyone, As part of my ongoing submission through Mizz Geena’s Panty Training. Each task is designed to gently move me out of comfort and into awareness, replacing hesitation with obedience and trust. Task 2, in particular, carried my submission beyond the...
Busy Days and New Training
It’s been busy around here. Last weekend was the visit with my husband’s ex, and I am currently working on a Secret Blog post about that experience. I have a firm deadline to publish it on Saturday, so Patreon subscribers keep an eye out. That one will be very...
The Lull: Searching Without Settling
There’s a strange quiet that happens when you’re doing everything right and still waiting. I’m in it now, this in-between. The pause after clarity, before connection. I’ve been explicit about what I’m looking for. I’m not casting a wide net and hoping chemistry...
a reminder of my place
part of my job for Madam is managing the house and any subs on the premises. that means schedules, assignments, standards, and yes, sometimes telling boys where they need to be, what they should be doing, and how to do it right. i take that responsibility...












Hello Chanel Lacey, welcome to FemdomU. You seem to be joining at an exciting time as the team is growing…
Pute, good read. I liked the points about getting the right fit, comfort, and hygiene. I’m learning about chastity myself,…
Levi, I really enjoyed this article about Clara Lemlich. What stood out to me most was that she did not…
Mistress Heather, I liked this article. What stood out to me was how structure can slowly slip when things become…
Mistress, I really liked this. The part about homework actually helping a slave become better at serving. I think it…