A poorly made chastity device is more than uncomfortable. It can cause skin abrasions, pinching, swelling, and even dangerous circulation problems. Cheap materials may contain irritants or rough seams that break down with wear. If you are going to lock up, invest...

Friday was just Ben and me all day, so I decided to structure it. I set a timer. He would get exactly thirty minutes to focus on whatever task he was working on. When the timer went off, he reported to me immediately. No hesitation. No delay. Each round was...

Okay. Don’t judge us. My girlfriend and I are very kinky. We don’t exactly turn it off just because there’s cake and a DJ involved. This was a wedding weekend. Lots of drinks. Lots of dancing. A hotel block full of questionable decisions. And somehow, by the end of...

people ask me what i do when Madam is with a client. these are men who pay her for domination, structure, and very specific training experiences. my role changes depending on the man and what she wants from the session. Madam gave me permission to talk, in general...

We hosted a formal dinner last weekend and it was one of my favorite kinds of gatherings. Kink friends attended, though not strictly a femdom crowd. You could say a wide array of interests and dynamics were represented, which made the energy in the room lively and...

Had my buddy “K” over last night. Annie had already turned in early, so it was just the two of us hanging out in the living room. We met about a year ago when he reached out to me online. Turns out he’s local here in Portland and part of the kink community. That’s...

I am just going to say it plainly. Part of being a strong, sexually dominant woman is being comfortable enough to admit what you enjoy. Confidence is not only about control. It is also about honesty with yourself. I enjoy a controlled threesome. I like the...