The FemdomU WHIP
Oct
2025
27
The Conscious Submissive
There are a lot of opinions about submission. Who’s doing it right, who’s doing it wrong, what counts as real. Those conversations miss the heart of it; conscious submission isn’t about perfection or performance. It’s about presence. It’s about stepping into...
Oct
2025
26
The Body Types I Am Attracted To
People often ask what kind of men I’m drawn to, what “type” catches my attention or makes me want to play. The truth is, I don’t believe in types anymore. I’ve had sessions with men of every shape, size, and background, and I’ve learned that attraction has very...
Oct
2025
26
My Real Pack Leaders
I talk a lot about my boys, but I realized I haven’t shared much about my true pack leaders... my three dogs. Anyone who knows me well already understands that the hierarchy in my home is simple: dogs first, everyone else after. My subs and even my husband know...
Oct
2025
25
Witchy Weekend Plans
I absolutely love Halloween. The house is already covered in cobwebs, glowing pumpkins, and cauldrons, and I still have more decorations that I can’t even find space for. I might have gone a little overboard this year, but honestly, that’s half the fun. My witch...
Oct
2025
24
Bonus Halloween Story for Our Patreon Subscribers
We’ve just published a special bonus Halloween story for our Patreon members who enjoy early access. Non-subscribers can read a short preview now, and the full story will be released publicly in about 60 days. You can find it here:...
Oct
2025
24
Be Honest About Medical Conditions
Your Domme needs the full picture to keep you safe. If you hide medical conditions, medications, past injuries, or mental health concerns, you’re putting both of you at risk. Honesty isn’t just polite—it’s essential. Whether it’s asthma, high blood pressure, past...
Oct
2025
23
home sweet home (finally)
after my whirlwind trip to the states for the protest, i’m finally back home and finishing up the move-in. almost everything has arrived, although i’ve still got one last big shipment to coordinate. and let me tell you, duckie’s room is awesome. i even have my own...
Oct
2025
22
Invest in Body-Safe Lube
Not all lubes are created equal. Some cheap brands contain sugars, glycerin, or harsh chemicals that can cause burning, irritation, or yeast infections—especially during anal play. Others can break down condoms or damage silicone toys. Always read the label and...
Oct
2025
21
The Vetting Trap: Why We Skip the Steps That Would Save Us
When chemistry hits, it feels like gravity. You meet someone who understands the way power moves between people. The humor lands. The conversation flows. The kink overlaps so perfectly that it feels like fate. Suddenly, you’re not thinking about vetting, you’re...
Oct
2025
20
Out of the Cage and Into the Action
It’s kind of funny that it’s Locktober, and yet I’ve been out of my cage more than in it. My Goddess has me fucking. A lot. And no, I’m not complaining. I’m a lucky bastard. This month alone, I’ve been with seven couples. Seven. Then there’s my Goddess ... we’ve...
I like the "Good Elf" affirmation notes tucked into a planner—small concrete gestures land harder than a big generic gift…
Duckie, the guests judging your appearance, usefulness, and ability to frighten wildlife was my favorite part! Standing there as Madam’s…
Mayi, Miss Geena certainly had plans for you that you weren’t expecting! Being told to wear your cage as soon…
Goddess Barbara, the part about standing naked before the mirror and speaking your fears aloud really caught my attention. As…
It's a Great one duckie, I enjoyed reading this! As a sub, I want to follow my Domme’s instructions, please…