The FemdomU WHIP
What I Want to Contribute to the Magazine
I want to earn my place here by being someone the Dommes can rely on, and someone the other subs can look up to. I’m not just here to write what’s asked of me. I want to build something with my words. A stronger, sharper, more unapologetic voice for this community....
Welcoming Fosterthing
Our new addition is a foster boy, and for clarity we’re calling him fosterthing for now. He’s more of a loner by nature, not exactly a pack boy, and that’s perfectly fine. He’s here because he needed a place, and we’re honored to have him. He’s not expected to...
Welcome Harrison Warwick
Help me welcome our newest Volunteer Service Sub, Harrison Warwick! Harrison brings some truly unique experiences to the team, including having performed in actual femdom videos. He’s also a published author with a strong background in femdom fiction - a perfect...
5 Ways I Plan to Improve as a Submissive Man
I want to improve as a submissive man. That's something I believe in. But I've come to the realization over the past few years that "improving as a submissive man" is practically the same as "improving as a man." Submissive men, and all men for that matter, need to...
My Femdom Values: Why I Serve
I’m not submissive because I’m weak. I’m submissive because I’m wired to serve. It’s not about being forced. It’s about being seen and still being taken in hand. Serving is how I connect, how I express love, how I find meaning. It’s not just kink. It’s my...
Trader Joe’s Surprise
Had a little unexpected moment at Trader Joe’s today. A young man, maybe early 20s, was bagging my groceries and offered to help me out to the car. We were laughing about some bratty child who had been melting down in the store, trading a few light jokes. Then, as...
Welcoming Our Fosterboy
I’m fostering. My dear, dear friend “S” is being moved into hospice care. Her submissive, her devoted partner, is being evicted from her home by her family. They’ve been cruel, heartless, and completely dismissive of his role and his love. He is losing his Domme,...
One Year, Ten Dommes, and a Public Performance Review
Wow. Can anyone think of another job where, on your one-year anniversary, your performance review is conducted in public by ten Dommes? It was both terrifying and exhilarating. Usually, I get to see everything web-related ahead of time because I’m the web guy. But...
Edge Training Begins
I’ve started a little experiment with three of my owned boys. We’re entering a new phase of training focused entirely on edging. I warned them this would be a frustrating period, and it’s already shaping up to be just that. But it’s also incredibly important. The...
Lessons From My Dommes
Each Domme I’ve served at FemdomU has left marks on me. Not just welts or bruises — though there have been those too — but deeper imprints. Lessons I didn’t even know I needed until they were carved into me. Here’s what I carry with me from each of them. Mizz Geena...




















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