The FemdomU WHIP
May
2025
20
Annie Was Away… and I Got Assigned
Annie was away for a week, and honestly, I was a little terrified she was going to push me into the next big "adventure" she’s been training me for. Thankfully, that didn’t happen. Instead, she sent me over to her friend June. No elaborate scene or challenge—just...
May
2025
19
Why I Failed, and Why I Care
This is not the post I wanted to write. But it’s the one I owe. I failed. I missed deadlines. I disappeared. I let work pile up, let communication fall apart, and let down the people who trusted me to show up. Not just once, but consistently. I broke the rhythm...
May
2025
18
Know the Signs of Sub Drop
Sub drop is real and it can hit hard—fatigue, sadness, anxiety, or feeling disconnected are all common symptoms after a scene. Dommes should check in, and subs should communicate how they’re feeling. Recognizing the signs early helps prevent emotional...
May
2025
18
behind the scenes with duckie
madam had me show her my recent blog posts, and she pointed out that i kinda made it sound like i wrote all the articles. oops. she suggested i share a little bit about our process. totally fair. i still think i got a lot of work done this week, but no, i didn’t...
May
2025
17
How I Fucked Up My Life, and the Friends Who Helped Me Crawl Out
If I’m going to return to my role at the Magazine, I have to be honest about what happened. Madam Nora made that clear. No more excuses. No more hiding. Just the truth, raw and unfiltered. When my girlfriend left me, I acted like I was the victim. But that’s not...
May
2025
17
Spotlight on High-Impact Resolutions from Conclave II
As we cast our votes for Conclave II, I wanted to take a moment to highlight the resolutions I believe carry the greatest impact, especially for our wider community and for the subs who serve us. That’s not to say any of the resolutions are unimportant. Items like...
May
2025
17
Back in Action
I’ve been a bit under the weather lately. For the past week or so, I’ve mostly been offline, and now I’m doing my best to dig my way out from under a pile of unanswered emails, messages, and lingering tasks. No matter, there’s work to be done, and it’s time to move...
May
2025
15
duckie gets it done
this duck is tired. realized the blog has been kinda quiet this week. not a lot of us posting. and yeah, there’s a reason. we’ve got two staff out sick, one on personal leave, and one on administrative leave. but guess what? here’s duckie! i’ve made no less than 18...
May
2025
14
duckie’s Cunnilingus Tome
Saturday was measurement day for my group's boys (story later, separately). As part, Dommes reviewed sub report cards - the end of the second 5-week interval of pussy worship proficiency drills (I've written about this separately - remedial training fallout from...
May
2025
13
Candle Wax Should Be Skin-Safe
Not all candles are safe for play. Regular ones burn too hot and can cause serious burns. Use candles made specifically for skin contact—typically soy or kink-formulated wax—and always test the temperature on yourself first. Sexy should never mean...
Spanked in Cancún, that sounds amazing. However, message received I will continue to try and not earn any bad boy…
I hear you duckie! :)
Kinda dramatic, duckie? :)
Haha I'll try training up to that!
I'm delighted to be a tool for your enjoyment Miss Autumn thank you for guiding me through this. I'm also…