After orgasm, especially during intense edging, denial, or control-based scenes, your body can experience a sudden emotional and physical crash. Hormones shift quickly. You might feel drained, irritable, unexpectedly sad, or disconnected. This is normal, but it...

Omg. So we had a new friend over, Riley. We met her on the boards, chatted for a while, and finally made plans to hang out. The three of us did dinner first. Totally normal. Lots of laughing. Good food. Then we got really, really high. Probably too high. Honestly,...

Primary Care, Primary Embarrassment So here’s the thing. I am terrible at adulting. I will ignore emails, forget appointments, and absolutely avoid calling a doctor unless someone makes me. That someone is my girlfriend. She handles it. She makes the appointments....

One of Annie’s floggers is both my favorite and my least favorite. We call it the Death Star. I bought it for her off Etsy a while back because I thought it was beautiful. The handle is incredibly detailed, shaped like a miniature replica of the Death Star from...

If you begin to feel floaty, distant, numb, or as if you are watching yourself from outside your body during a scene, you may be dissociating. Sometimes this can feel calming, but it can also interfere with communication and awareness. When you are not fully...