21 Steps to Training the Beast Inside Your Boy
Pet play is not just about fetching bones and wearing collars—it’s an immersive tool for total psychological surrender. At its core, it strips the submissive of their identity, language, and dignity. You’re not punishing a man. You’re training an animal. When combined with humiliation, pet play becomes something deeper: a ritualized transformation, a deliberate dismantling of ego and autonomy.
Here’s a long, in-depth list of ways you can incorporate pet play into your Femdom scenes to elicit degradation, reinforce authority, and drive submission down to its rawest, most primal place.
1. Choose the Right Animal Archetype
Assign him a creature identity that matches your dynamic:
- Dog: Loyal, trainable, obedient, easily humiliated.
- Pig: Greedy, filthy, degrading, greedy again.
- Pony: Pretty, showy, high-effort, objectified.
- Cat: Aloof, bratty, needing correction.
- Hybrid/Made-up: Combine traits to make him feel even less human.
2. Establish Speech Limits
No words. Only approved sounds.
A dog barks. A pig oinks. A pony whinnies. He loses language, because language is a human privilege.
3. Remove Human Posture
He doesn’t stand. He crawls.
Crawling reinforces physical vulnerability and status. Try variations:
- Belly crawl
- All fours
- Knees only
Use posture commands like “Sit,” “Down,” “Present,” and reward good form with a pat or praise. Or don’t.
4. Create a Daily Pet Routine
Make his animal role part of daily rituals.
- Morning walk (on leash, even indoors)
- Meal in a bowl, on the floor
- Crate time
- Grooming rituals (brushing, scenting, or shaving)
5. Collar and Leash Protocols
Every pet needs a collar. It’s his most visible lack of freedom.
Choose one that suits the mood:
- Elegant leather for show ponies
- Metal choke for canines
- Pink vinyl for humiliation pigs
The leash isn’t just for movement—it’s a symbol of possession.
6. Feeding Degradation
Make him eat like an animal.
- Food in bowls
- No utensils
- No hands
You can humiliate further by feeding him scraps, leftovers, or something intentionally less appealing. For extra control, feed him by hand or mouth-to-mouth.
7. Use Scent and Smell
Mark him with your scent.
Perfume on his collar. Your underwear rubbed on his snout. Have him sniff your armpits, your boots, your panties. Train his animal mind to associate obedience with scent.
8. Animal Training Drills
Teach tricks. Reward and punish accordingly.
- Roll over
- Beg
- Heel
- Fetch
Failure is punished. Success might mean getting to lick your boot. Maybe.
9. Crating and Kenneling
A confined pet is an obedient pet.
Use a dog crate, a storage trunk, a cage. Small space equals small ego. Time in the crate reinforces your power to decide when he gets stimulation and when he gets isolation.
10. Use a Clicker or Whistle
Train with audible markers. Clickers are great for behavior reinforcement. One click = task completed. It becomes a feedback loop. You are conditioning his responses.
11. Costumes and Accessories
You don’t need gear—but it helps.
- Tails (anal plug or belt-on)
- Muzzles
- Paws or hoof mitts
- Ears or hoods
They visually reinforce the transformation—and they can feel ridiculous, which is part of the shame.
12. Muzzle Him
Literally or symbolically.
- Ball gags or silicone muzzles
- Panties tied in his mouth
- Duct tape over his lips
He cannot speak unless you permit it. The animal does not negotiate.
13. Make Him Perform for an Audience
If humiliation is the goal, adding spectators adds power.
Have him perform a trick for friends, crawl during a group video call, or beg in a DM exchange you control. The more eyes, the more shame.
14. Urge Territorial Behavior
Make him mark things (without actual urine unless you’re into watersports).
- Have him sniff and rub his face on your shoes.
- Assign him a “bed” or “spot” he must return to.
- For pigs: roll in metaphorical filth—food, mud, degradation rituals.
15. Use Spanking or Caning as Correction
Animals don’t understand lectures. They understand discipline.
Immediate, firm correction for bad behavior. If he wants to play the pet, he must accept the consequences.
16. Humping as Degradation
Make him hump a pillow, your boot, a furniture leg.
It’s humiliating, needy, absurd. Let him get close to release—but not too close. Remind him he’s not a man. Just a beast with a twitching cock.
17. Verbal Humiliation
Reinforce the mindset with language:
- “You’re not a man anymore.”
- “Who’s my filthy mutt?”
- “You want to be treated like a human? Then act like one.”
Words are weapons. Use them precisely.
18. Dirty Tasks as Animal Chores
Assign tasks that reinforce degradation.
- Licking the floor
- Sniffing your laundry
- Cleaning the toilet (with tongue optional)
- Snuffling around for “lost” items
19. Public or Semi-Public Play
If safe and consensual, make him wear a tail plug under his clothes, a collar during errands, or bark under the table at a party. The possibility of being noticed enhances the humiliation tenfold.
20. Reward Structure Based on Obedience
If he’s good, maybe he gets to sleep by your feet.
If he’s bad, maybe he doesn’t get to speak tomorrow.
Create a system of incentives and punishments to shape behavior long-term.
21. Post-Scene Aftercare as Re-Taming
Aftercare is essential.
You broke him down. Now rebuild him slowly. Maybe not to human—but to a pet who knows he’s loved, owned, wanted. Stroke his hair, hold him close. Let him feel the safety that comes from knowing he belongs to you.
Pet play and humiliation is not just a kink—it’s a form of mind control. It’s your opportunity to strip away the layers of manhood, pride, identity, and leave only a creature: trained, obedient, humiliated, and yours. Take your time. Be cruel. Be clever. Most of all—be consistent. A pet doesn’t become broken in a day.
But once he is? He’ll never want to stand upright again.























I won’t lie, I’m on the fence with pet play.
But I’m leaning more towards the ‘would like to try/experience it’.
For me it is the restriction side of it, be it physically limited for things such as movement, standing, talking and such that I think has the draw for me.
I honestly don’t know if I’d be able to embody the pet persona but may well be one of those occasions that you need to be in character to fully embrace it.
Great and detailed post on the subject though for sure!
haha eleven so pc about it – so are you a dog or pig? !:)
personally I’ve done all four of these except cat, and had fun. I think being a cat would be my punishment though.