For Bisexuality Day, Annie is sharing the story of the first time she had me experience what we call “Femdom bisexual” activity, so I decided I’d share something more recent. This one involved a woman I’ll call Rebecca and her boyfriend, who we met on Sniffies of all fucking places.

Rebecca wanted to humiliate her boyfriend by involving another man, and eventually that led to them coming over to our house. We’d talked about boundaries beforehand and everyone knew what Rebecca wanted. She wanted the two of us to go down on each other, right there in my living room, while she watched and controlled the experience. And Annie was there for the whole thing too, sitting back and watching what her husband had gotten himself into. Having my wife there made me feel even more on display. This wasn’t something I could conveniently tuck away as some private bisexual experiment. Annie was watching me do it, and she knew exactly how much that added to the embarrassment for me.

I should probably clarify something I’ve danced around before. I am capable of being attracted to men. I’m more interested in women, and Femdom is usually what makes bisexual activity really click for me, but I’m not going to pretend I can’t look at a guy and think he’s attractive. Rebecca’s boyfriend wasn’t bad looking at all. He was also obviously nervous, and he blushed like fucking crazy when Rebecca told us what she wanted. That actually made the whole situation more exciting for me because I could see how much control she had over him.

She ordered me to go down on him first. Yeah, there was some humiliation in kneeling there and doing that while his girlfriend watched me, especially with Annie sitting there watching too, but fuck, it was also kinda exciting. There wasn’t any ambiguity about why I was doing it. Rebecca had commanded it, and I was performing for her. At the same time, I was very aware that Annie was watching me obey another woman. That added another layer to the whole thing because Annie knows me well enough to recognize exactly when I’m embarrassed, exactly when I’m enjoying myself, and especially when both are happening at the same fucking time.

Then Rebecca reversed things and ordered her boyfriend to go down on me. That’s where her treatment of him really became the turn-on for me. She stayed right there controlling him and teasing him about what he was doing, making sure he remembered that he was performing because she’d told him to. Watching his embarrassment while Rebecca remained completely confident and amused got into my head in a big way. And every once in a while I’d look over at Annie and see her watching all of this too, completely comfortable with another woman controlling both men in her living room.

I’m thankful Rebecca had me go down on him first. I’m a lot less horny once I’ve shot my load, so getting that part of my performance out of the way first was definitely the right order for me. Rebecca may not have planned it for that reason, but it worked.

That’s probably what I’ve learned most clearly from experiences like this. Yes, I can be attracted to a man. Yes, sexual contact with another guy can be exciting for me. I don’t need to bullshit myself about either of those things. But put it inside a Femdom dynamic, with a woman deciding what we’re doing and enjoying the control she has over both men, then add my own wife sitting there watching me submit to it, and it pushes an entirely different set of buttons for me.

Rebecca definitely found them.

And judging by Annie’s reaction, she enjoyed watching her find them too.

Happy Bisexuality Day.