Advice on Oral Sex for First-Timers

1. Don’t rush it. Go slow to build anticipation. Start at the neck, kissing and licking gently. Slowly move to the little hollow at the bottom of the neck. Gently flick it with your tongue. Then kiss your way down to her breasts. Kiss and lick all around one while gently massaging the other. The one you are kissing work your tongue to the nipple, flick your tongue on it, and kiss and suck on with your lips. GENTLY nibble with your teeth. Note: some women don’t like to be nibbled there so be AWARE of how she reacts. While using your tongue on one breast massage the other with your hand. Circle all around it gently squeezing, and rubbing. With one finger gently circle the nipple, then gently pinch and tease it with two fingers. Unless she expresses she wants you to move on start kissing the other breasts while massaging the other.

2. After some time start moving down again kissing and licking to her navel. Spend some time there with your tongue. While there start teasing down the side of her leg with your fingers of one hand. All around her pussy but not touching it at first. Then brush over gently and teasingly across her pussy and perhaps around to one cheek of her ass. Teasingly the whole time. After some time start moving down with your tongue towards her pussy. Flick your tongue all around it but don’t touch it. Remember build up anticipation.

3. Okay now it’s showtime. (By the way, if you have done the previous things right her pussy should be wet.) Hover over her pussy with your mouth gently blowing on it with your breath. Stick your finger inside her pussy and massage her G-spot. That should get her juices flowing. If you are good enough with your finger she might have her first orgasm. Then stick out your tongue towards your chin keeping it flat. Start at the bottom and slowly drag your tongue up to the top. Do this a few times then dig in a little bit and touch the magic button, but don’t linger. Then curve your tongue and go in her pussy deep. Tongue her pussy walls. Keep this up for a few minutes.

4. Then the finale. Find her clit with your tongue. Gently flick it. Gently kiss and suck on it. Keep at it til you bring her to another orgasm. You will awarded by her wet warm juices.

5. It’s important to be aware of your Domme’s body movements the whole time you are pleasuring her. It will guide you on what she likes best and if you need to change your movements with your mouth and tongue. She may tell you what she wants you to do so pay attention.