By Cody, Mistress Heather’s husband

Living in a Female-Led Relationship with Mistress Heather means one thing above all else: she is the boss. With busy lives, kids to raise, and responsibilities pulling us in every direction, there isn’t much room for hesitation when she decides she wants something—especially oral pleasure.

The truth is, submission isn’t always convenient, but that’s the point. If she wants it while I’m exhausted from a long day, I do it. If she wants it when she’s not as fresh as usual, I do it. If we’re in the middle of a chaotic moment and she has a sudden urge, I find a way to make it happen. There’s no room for excuses in this dynamic.

The key to making this work is to adopt a mindset of absolute readiness. When you’re committed to serving her anytime, anywhere, and in any condition, you show her that her needs and desires are your priority. That kind of devotion builds trust and deepens the connection between you.

Does it mean sacrificing comfort or convenience sometimes? Absolutely. But every time she smiles, moans, or sighs in satisfaction, it’s a reminder that this life—this dynamic—is worth it. My advice to fellow subs: don’t overthink it. Just do it. She’s the boss, and her pleasure is everything.