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Category: Freeuse

FreeUse but Not Abusive?

Posted by Mizz Geena | Ask a Dominatrix, Freeuse, Group Femdom |

When a freeuse dynamic starts to shift into exhaustion, the Domme must step in. In this candid advice column, Mizz Geena responds to a reader whose submissive boyfriend is being overused by a housemate’s new partner. Learn how to reassert authority, preserve joy, and protect the submissive without breaking the group dynamic.

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Interview Five

Mistress Heather

December 5, 2025

Interview five was solid. He is in his mid 30s,

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Scrappy Wants More… and I Am Considering It

Mizz Geena

December 5, 2025

Scrappy has been sniffing around again, clearly hoping for another

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International Volunteer Day

Mizz Geena

December 5, 2025

Today is International Volunteer Day, and I want to take

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Welcome Our New Volunteer Sub, Thanuj

Mizz Geena

December 5, 2025

Please join me in welcoming Thanuj, our newest volunteer sub,

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Introduction to the FemdomU community

Thanuj

December 5, 2025

Hello Everyone, My name is Thanuj, and I am joining

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“Just Because”

Zeek

December 4, 2025

Annie pulled one of her surprises on me again. It

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Playing Director during a Cuckolding Control and Surrender Scene

Mizz Geena

December 4, 2025

Thing1 has always been my most reliable bull. His broad

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Don’t Improvise Suspension Without Training

Nursedomme Jessica

December 3, 2025

Suspension bondage is one of the most dangerous forms of

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When She Made Me Prove I’m No duckie

Levi

December 3, 2025

So my Domme read duckie’s ridiculous post about edging himself

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