Commanding Cock and Cum in Bisexual Femdom
Forced bisexual play is a consensual kink where a submissive is ordered, coerced, or manipulated into engaging sexually with another man under a Domme’s authority. It is “forced” in roleplay only; consent and negotiation are essential foundations. The thrill comes from taboo-breaking, humiliation, and the intoxicating spectacle of men doing things for my amusement that they would not otherwise choose.
I have guided many such scenes, both professionally with clients and privately with submissive men who begged for the chance. My husband Cody is not usually interested in this kind of play, but other men have relished the role of eager cocksucker, cum dump, or humiliated “cleanup boy.” With me directing, they quickly learn their place.
Below, I lay out a step-by-step evening plan with escalating tasks, each more explicit and humiliating than the last. Adjust the intensity depending on the comfort levels of your submissives.
Scene One: Breaking the Ice with the Kiss of Command
Have both men strip fully, kneeling before you. One may be trembling, resistant, embarrassed. The other may already be hard, eager to please. Command the reluctant one to lean forward and kiss the other on the lips. Hold their heads together with your hands, pressing their mouths into one another until their lips open and tongues meet.
Erotic detail: Spit into their joined mouths. Make them share it back and forth as you laugh. Stroke your own thighs or slide your panties aside while watching their faces flush.
Scene Two: Oral Servitude Relay
Put the “forced” sub on his knees. Order him to wrap his lips around the other man’s cock and keep it deep until you say stop. Give precise commands: “Now lick his balls. Now swallow his shaft whole. Don’t come up for air until I snap my fingers.”
Erotic detail: Sit on the forced sub’s back or even straddle his cock while he sucks, forcing him to service both cock and cunt at the same time.
Scene Three: Cleanup Challenge
After the eager sub cums on your chest, thighs, or belly, order the reluctant one to lick every drop. Hold his head down so he can’t pull away, and taunt him with phrases like, “Good little cumrag. Don’t miss a drop. Swallow it all, slut.”
Erotic detail: Rub the cum into your skin first, smearing it across your breasts or thighs, then order him to lick it clean from your body. The mix of humiliation and worship is intoxicating.
Scene Four: Strap-On Hierarchy
Put on a strap-on and fuck the eager sub hard, pulling his hair back and making him moan for your cock. Then yank the other sub forward and force him to lick the strap between thrusts, tasting spit, lube, and ass. Alternate who takes the cock, who licks it clean, and who kneels at your feet begging for permission to touch.
Erotic detail: Push the cock down the forced sub’s throat until he gags, then slap his face and laugh, “You’ll take it better next time.”
Scene Five: Shared Worship
Spread your legs wide and command both men to serve you together. One licks your pussy while the other licks his cock at the same time. Or have them both on their knees at your feet, sucking your toes while jerking each other off under your gaze.
Erotic detail: Pull their heads together so their tongues meet at your pussy lips, forcing them to taste each other while they devour you.
Scene Six: Cum Control Punishment
Decide who gets to cum and who doesn’t. Force one man to edge while the other explodes. When the first begs for release, deny him and make him clean the other’s cock with his mouth instead. Or, allow him to orgasm only if he eats cum from your strap-on or from the other sub’s cock.
Erotic detail: Order both men to cum on the floor in front of you, then command them to lap it up together like dogs, licking the tiles until the combined mess is gone.
Scene Seven: The Filmed Confession
Set up a phone or camera. Order one sub to film while the other performs. Make them look into the camera and say humiliating lines like, “I love sucking cock for Mistress,” or, “I’m her cum-eating bitch.”
Erotic detail: Once the filming is done, make them kneel naked together while you hold the camera up and mock them, replaying their confessions as you laugh and stroke your strap-on.
Scene Eight: The Final Humiliation
Line both men up side by side. Have them kiss, stroke each other, and finally swallow one another’s cum, all while thanking you. Make them repeat phrases like, “We are Mistress Heather’s property. Our mouths exist for cock and cunt.” Finish by sitting back in your throne-like chair, legs spread, while they kneel cum-smeared and obedient before you.
Erotic detail: Snap your fingers, and they immediately start licking each other’s faces clean, trading spit and semen like mindless playthings.
Advanced Options for Extreme Filth and Severity
Once your submissives have adapted to the core rituals of forced bisexual play, you may choose to escalate the humiliation, mess, and taboo. These advanced tasks are not for beginners. They require subs who crave degradation and a Domme who enjoys pushing them to their psychological and physical limits.
Cum-Bath Worship
Instead of swallowing immediately, instruct both subs to cum onto your body, each other’s bodies, or into a bowl. Smear it around with your hands, rub it into their faces, hair, and chests, and then order them to lick it off each other until it is gone. The mixture of smells, textures, and tastes will drive the humiliation home.
Ass-to-Mouth Ritual
Fuck one sub’s ass with your strap-on, then pull it out and shove it directly into the other’s mouth. Order him to suck it clean without hesitation. Add verbal humiliation like, “Taste his dirty hole for me, slut.” You can escalate by switching roles so each man is forced into ass-to-mouth service.
Rimming Obedience
Order the reluctant sub to rim the eager one, tongue deep in his ass while you sit on his back, smothering him. Praise or mock his technique. Have the eager sub taunt him with lines like, “You love eating my ass because Mistress commands it.”
Golden Shower Control
Add watersports as a final layer of submission. Position both subs on their knees and piss into their mouths, making them share the stream, or into a glass and hand it to one, ordering him to drink and then kiss the other with your piss still in his mouth. Few things feel as powerful as seeing them degrade themselves for you with your own piss.
Spit-Swap Punishment
Spit directly into one sub’s mouth, then command him to transfer it by kissing the other. Repeat until both are drooling, gagging, and dripping down their chins. This works beautifully with cum, piss, or even food if you want to play with disgust.
Double Penetration Service
If you enjoy spectacle, use two strap-ons or involve a toy to create double penetration. One sub takes your cock while holding another toy in place for the other, who is ordered to keep it steady with his mouth or hands. Watching their holes filled side by side is breathtaking.
The Human Trough
Line both men on their knees with open mouths. Use them as receptacles: spit, piss, cum, or food can be deposited for them to swallow together. Treat them as objects of use, reminding them that they are nothing but troughs for your amusement.
FAQ
What if my sub hesitates or refuses mid-scene?
That is part of the thrill. Use it to heighten the humiliation. Remind him he agreed to obey, and punish disobedience by denying orgasms, withholding privileges, or making him beg harder.
What if one sub is inexperienced?
Start with lighter tasks, like kissing or licking thighs. Build slowly. Forced bisexual play is as much psychological as physical.
How do I keep it safe?
Always use condoms for anal or oral if there are concerns. Discuss limits, safe words, and aftercare before the scene. Provide reassurance and praise afterward, even when the roleplay itself is harsh.
Can this be done with toys instead of another man?
Yes. A dildo, strap-on, or even a fleshlight can substitute. Order a sub to suck a dildo after it has been inside you, or force him to eat from a toy that another has used.
Mistress Heather’s Final Word
Forced bisexual scenarios thrive on your absolute command. The sight of two men, one reluctant and one eager, submitting to each other under your orders is an erotic power trip unlike any other. These challenges are not just sex acts; they are rituals of humiliation, submission, and spectacle, all woven together under your authority. Use them, layer them, and enjoy watching your subs crumble, lick, and swallow at your command.
Health and Safety Editor’s Note
by NurseDomme Jessica
Forced bisexual play can be a wildly erotic and thrilling form of power exchange, but it is essential to remember that safety, consent, and communication are the foundation of any kinky fun. When all parties agree on boundaries and understand the risks, these scenarios can be as safe as they are exciting.
Certain activities described above, such as ass-to-mouth (ATM), rimming, and cum-swallowing, do carry additional health concerns. Bacteria and viruses can be transmitted through these acts, especially if proper precautions are not taken. To minimize risks, consider the following:
- Use protection where appropriate. Condoms and dental dams are simple tools that can prevent unwanted transmission of STIs.
- Maintain hygiene. Thorough cleaning before play makes rimming and ATM both safer and more enjoyable.
- Stay informed. Regular STI testing for all participants is an important part of being a responsible kinkster.
- Know your limits. Subs may be eager to please, but their bodies and health deserve respect. If something feels unsafe, it’s okay to slow down, modify, or stop.
- Aftercare is essential. Both physical and emotional. Clean up carefully, hydrate, and check in with your partners about how they feel.
Kink is most satisfying when it’s practiced responsibly. With proper preparation and a shared commitment to safety, these taboo scenarios can provide unforgettable scenes while keeping everyone healthy, sane, and ready to play again.
This is intense and… well, really hot Mistress Heather. I’ll admit I’m more open to these experiences now that Annie has guided us down the path… I think the big thing, at least for us, is being with fun people, and making sure everyone enjoys themselves.
What a post! What a read.
Its a tough one for me being in my position as most of me is saying something like this is very unlikely to happen or present itself as an opportunity, other parts of me simply dont know if I’d want it to or not – which I do guess is kind of the point.
I know that my desire deep down is to be that ‘yes Miss’ sub and do anything that makes her happy, gives her a smile or in some cases is simply new. I know a scenario like this requires a large amount of trust and openness up front to agree both hard and soft limits.
I genuinely dont know firstly how responsive i’d be to this, i mean i know its on my ‘likely never happen’ list so dont dwell on it, but that doesn’t mean I hadn’t thought about it, wondered what the experience would be like and more importantly to be told that is what I am to do rather than for me to wander into it voluntarily.
Certainly reading the scenarios here though there are plenty of layers, stages, options and ways for me to show that I am the submissive or to play the part of the reluctant sub though.
Thank you for posting and hopefully this spurs some other domme into give this a try with their submissive!
SIZZLINGLY hot read, boss.
There wasn’t a single bullet point here that I wouldn’t be proud to do for my domme.
Speaking to my limited experience, I have absolutely served alongside other naked boys at CFNM events and such, but have never been given the order to engage in forced bisexuality.
But I know I wouldn’t have a problem doing it, heterosexual as I am. I’m comfortable in my sexuality, and it’s just my body, you know?
The way I’ve always approached a scene, is that there is only me and my domina. Everything else is set dressing, including the other humans.
Her making me kiss another boy is the same as her making me kiss her boots…it’s all a part of the journey.
You sound dynamite to scene with, Mistress!
Very good article. All these things develop naturally the more complete domination is. What once seemed perverted or outrageously nasty eventually becomes second nature. Girls are always looking for new horizons (variety being a spice of life) and boys completely accustomed and at ease doing what they’re told.
Mistress Heather catching a deep breath from this post . The post is red hot. Sometimes i go so far as to think i am a highly experienced sub. This post is one of those times i realize that i am just started in my journey. Just when i thought you were ready2 bring the post to an end you brought up the advanced options. The room got warm as i read the words. It was like everything else ceased to exist around me.
Yes i have a lot to learn. This is where I belong.
Serve and please beyond expectations .
Well I’m turned on. Even though a lot of these tasks would be hard for me to complete. The more taboo it is the more I like it. Something about forced bi sends me shivers of excitement in me, the complete turn over of the reins to a Domme and the humiliation but I would definitely be the reluctant one. I have no interest in mens body, my only interest is to make her happy and to be reminded of my place beneath her.
If a Domme wanted this out me I think a slow introduction of the kink and communication is needed.