Complete Submission: A Lesson in Oral Worship

Hello, readers. My name is Mr. Sub, and while this is my first article, I’ve been with FemdomU Magazine since its inception. I’m proud to say I’ve supported this incredible publication from the beginning, not just as a reader or a contributor, but as one of Madam Nora’s original investors. For years, I’ve remained in the background, observing, learning, and growing within my own unique dynamic. Now, I’m stepping forward to share some of the lessons I’ve learned in my journey of submission.

A bit about me: my Domme and I share an unusual relationship. She is my boss in every way that matters, yet I also happen to be hers—in a corporate sense. She works as my administrative assistant at the company I own, managing my calendar, my office, and, more importantly, me. It’s a dynamic filled with contrasts, power, and, above all, trust. But I’ll save more about our story for another time. Today, I want to focus on the topic at hand: oral worship.

Oral pleasure is, in my opinion, one of the most profound expressions of submission. It is a moment when you are entirely vulnerable, utterly focused, and wholly devoted to your Domme. If there’s one lesson I’ve learned and internalized, it’s this: leave your ego and expectations at the door. You are there to serve her and nothing more. This is not about your skill, your pride, or even your desire to impress. It’s about her pleasure, her experience, her satisfaction.

True oral worship requires complete submission. It begins with your mindset. When you kneel before your Domme, you should do so with no thoughts of self—only her. Your focus should be on reading her body, responding to her cues, and giving her everything you have. Every lick, kiss, and movement should be an offering, a testament to your devotion. You are not there to receive praise or acknowledgment; you are there to make her feel like a goddess.

This level of submission also means relinquishing control. It’s not up to you to decide what feels good or when she’s had enough. Your role is to follow her lead, whether she’s guiding you with her voice, her hands, or her body. If she tells you to keep going, you keep going. If she tells you to stop, you stop. If she says nothing at all, you continue to serve until she decides otherwise. Her pleasure is the only measure of success.

One of the most important aspects of oral worship is to give yourself entirely. By the time your Domme is satisfied, you should feel drained, as if you’ve poured every ounce of energy into her pleasure. Yet, paradoxically, you should also feel ready to keep going if she desires more. This is the essence of submission: finding strength in her dominance, pushing past your limits because her satisfaction is all that matters. When you’re doing it right, her moans, her sighs, and the way her body responds will fuel you like nothing else can.

Expect nothing in return. Oral worship is not transactional. It’s not about earning rewards or proving yourself. It’s about devotion in its purest form. If she chooses to reward you with her praise, her affection, or anything else, accept it as a gift, not a guarantee. The real reward is knowing that you’ve pleased her, that you’ve given her exactly what she needed in that moment.

In the end, oral worship is about more than technique or skill; it’s about the mindset you bring to the act. When you approach it with humility, selflessness, and an unwavering focus on her pleasure, you create an experience that goes beyond the physical. You make her feel powerful, cherished, and utterly in control. That, my fellow subs, is the ultimate goal.

I look forward to sharing more insights and experiences with you in future articles. Until then, remember: complete submission is not just an act; it’s a state of being. Serve well.