FemdomU Chastity Challenge: Lock Him Up for Locktober and Get Ready for No Nutt November!

As October rolls in, we’re all gearing up for the kinkiest month of the year—Kinktober! From thrilling BDSM events to sexy Halloween-themed fun, FemdomU Magazine is celebrating the entire month in style. And for those couples who enjoy the power and control of chastity, this time of year also means the arrival of Locktober, a month-long tradition where submissive men are kept securely locked away, their pleasure in the hands of their keyholders.

What is Locktober?

For many in the Female-Led Relationship (FLR) community, Locktober is the ultimate expression of control and devotion. It’s a 31-day period where dominant women lock their submissive men in chastity devices, denying them release and heightening the power dynamic. For some, it’s about teasing him mercilessly, for others it’s about reinforcing his submission by keeping him on edge for the entire month. Locktober is an exciting time for any couple who uses chastity as a core part of their relationship, with each day a tantalizing reminder of who holds the keys to his pleasure.

Why Chastity?

Chastity can transform a relationship by deepening the level of control, trust, and communication between partners. Whether you’re an FLR couple looking to explore power dynamics or a dominant woman enjoying the thrill of absolute control, chastity is a playful and erotic way to build tension, strengthen the bond, and create unforgettable experiences.

Locktober is the perfect opportunity to explore chastity, especially for those new to it. And for seasoned keyholders, it’s a chance to push the boundaries of control, teasing, and denial. Whether he’s locked up for the entire month or allowed brief moments of freedom, the dynamic keeps him constantly aware of his submission—and of your power.

Share Your Locktober Journey

Here at FemdomU Magazine, we want to hear all about your experiences this Locktober—whether you’re going to try chastity for the first time or you’re already an expert. Whether you’re planning short lock-sessions this month or aiming to keep him locked for the entire 31 days, we want to follow your journey! We’re accepting chastity journal entries, keyholder diaries, photos of your locked property, and stories about how your month is going. Are you teasing him mercilessly? Keeping him on edge with the promise of release that never comes? Or adding even more devious layers to your dominance? Your stories and updates could inspire others and show just how thrilling this time of year can be.

Save the date for Femdomu’s no-nutt-november challenges and prizes

Get ready, ladies! Right after October, we’ll roll into the ultimate in orgasm control and denial with FemdomU’s No Nutt November Challenges. This month-long event is all about tightening your control, teasing him to the edge, and denying him the pleasure he craves. Whether he’s locked in a cage or under your strict non-caged command, November is your time to make him submit fully to your desires.

No Nutt November: Total Control, Total Denial

For those of you who enjoy the power and thrill of Locktober, you can roll right into No Nutt November and keep the fun going! In fact, we’re encouraging everyone to push their control further by incorporating even more delicious challenges throughout November.

Whether you decide to keep him caged for the whole month or explore new methods of orgasm denial, the focus is on keeping him desperate and obedient, while you enjoy every second of his torment.

Here’s just a quick glance at our NO-Nutt November Challenges

• Chastity: We’ve got a variety of chastity challenges to keep him on his toes (and at your mercy) for the entire month. From continuing with his locked state to introducing fresh, devious tasks, the possibilities are endless.
• Chastity without the cage: Think chastity is only about the cage? Think again. November’s challenges will include chastity without the cage, giving you the power to control his orgasms without needing to lock him up physically. Keep him on a strict honor system, test his self-control, and make sure he knows exactly who’s in charge. You’ll control when (or if) he touches himself, and each time he manages to resist, you can push his limits even further. It’s a great way to explore chastity with or without a device, and it keeps things exciting as he strives to please you.
• Edging and Denial: Few things are as fun as edging him—bringing him right to the brink of orgasm, only to deny him at the last second. This technique is a beautiful blend of torment and control, and it’s a big part of the No Nutt November challenge. Use edging to keep him desperate and fully aware of his submission to you. The build-up becomes more intense with each denial, making the control even more satisfying for you (and more frustrating for him!).
• Ruined Orgasms: For the truly devious among you, ruined orgasms will play a big part in this year’s challenge. Let him think he’s about to enjoy release, only to stop at the perfect moment and leave him a frustrated, trembling mess. Ruining his orgasm is the ultimate form of control, where you allow him to feel the build-up but deny the satisfaction of a full release. The beauty of ruined orgasms is that you still maintain all the power while keeping him desperate and needy. And the best part? You can do it over and over again.

We’ll be announcing Prizes for the No-Nutt November Challenges prior to the event, so stay tuned!

Ready to Join?

 If you would like to share your Locktober Journey OR participate in our No Nutt November Challenges, register now using the form below.