First Time Oral: Providing Level 10 Service to a New Domme, First Time and Every Time

When you’re a submissive tasked with giving oral pleasure to a Domme for the first time, you have one goal: perfection. My wife Annie, in her infinite wisdom and dominance, has often sent me on such assignments. Whether it’s one of her closest friends, a curious acquaintance, or someone she just wants to see serviced, my instructions remain clear: make it unforgettable. Over time, I’ve developed a playbook for ensuring that the first time (and every time after) is an experience worthy of the trust given to me.

1. Mindset: Submission Starts Before the Act

Serving a new Domme begins long before your tongue ever makes contact. The moment you’re introduced to the task, you should adopt a mindset of complete submission. Listen attentively to any instructions or preferences she shares, even if they’re minimal. If she’s silent, take note of her body language, her expressions, and her tone. This is her show, not yours. Approach the moment with humility, gratitude, and a desire to please her above all else.

When Annie handed me over to her friend June for my first task with her, June’s confidence was as intimidating as it was arousing. She barely gave instructions, only a smirk and a command to “make me glad Annie sent you.” That was all I needed to know: she expected excellence. Every Domme will expect the same.

2. Preparation: Cleanliness is Submission

Never underestimate the importance of preparation. This goes beyond showering. Groom yourself thoroughly, ensure your breath is impeccable, and if the Domme provides specific guidelines for your appearance, follow them to the letter. For me, Annie always ensures I’m presentable before I’m sent out, but double-checking never hurts. Preparation is a form of respect, and it sets the tone for the encounter.

3. Learn Her Body: Be a Student of Her Pleasure

Every Domme’s body is different, and part of your role as a submissive is to learn her unique responses. Start slow. Use light, teasing licks and kisses to gauge her reactions. Pay attention to her breathing, her moans, or any verbal feedback. Don’t rush to impress with flashy moves or overly aggressive techniques. Instead, focus on building anticipation and discovering what she loves most.

During one of my assignments, Annie’s friend V made it clear she enjoyed a slow buildup. It took time to figure out the right rhythm, but her praise afterward made the effort worthwhile. Nothing beats hearing a Domme say, “You exceeded my expectations.”

4. Consistency is Key: Keep the Momentum

Once you’ve found the rhythm and techniques she enjoys, commit to them. Don’t switch things up unnecessarily or break the flow. Consistency shows you’re focused on her pleasure and willing to endure whatever it takes to keep her satisfied. If she wants you to hold a challenging position or maintain a specific pace, do so without complaint. Your discomfort is irrelevant compared to her satisfaction.

5. Anticipate Her Needs: Serve Without Being Asked

Anticipation is a skill that sets apart a good oral submissive from a great one. Always stay attuned to her signals. If she shifts her hips, follow her lead. If she grips your head, understand what she wants without hesitation. Anticipating her needs demonstrates attentiveness and devotion, two qualities every Domme values in a submissive.

6. Handle Feedback with Grace

If she gives instructions or critiques, take them as gifts. Remember, feedback isn’t criticism; it’s an opportunity to improve. Thank her for her guidance and adjust immediately. My experience with June taught me the importance of adaptability. At one point, she told me to “less tongue, more suction.” I took her direction to heart, and her satisfied sighs told me I’d nailed it.

7. Finish Strong: End on a High Note

The way you finish matters just as much as how you start. Whether she climaxes or simply decides she’s had enough, ensure the ending is as attentive and respectful as the beginning. Clean her up gently if she permits, or stay in position until she dismisses you. Gratitude is essential; thank her for the opportunity to serve her. This is her moment, and your role is to enhance it.

Final Thoughts: Making Every Time a “First Time”

Serving a new Domme with oral pleasure is a privilege, one that demands your best effort every time. But here’s the secret: treating every session as if it’s the first time ensures you never become complacent. Even with Annie, my ultimate Domme, I strive to approach every act of service with the same eagerness and care as our earliest encounters.

To my fellow submissives: remember that your performance reflects not just on you, but on the Domme who allows you to serve her. Make her proud, and you’ll find fulfillment in her satisfaction.