Forced Consumption – Making Him Swallow Everything You Give
Facesitting is already a powerful display of dominance, but when you add forced consumption—ensuring he swallows everything you provide—it becomes an act of complete submission. Whether it’s spit, orgasm juices, or even urine, this level of control reinforces your superiority and deepens his devotion.
This guide will help you integrate forced swallowing into smothering sessions, turning your body into his only source of pleasure, breath, and sustenance.
Setting the Scene
Before incorporating forced swallowing into your play, take time to prepare:
- Discuss Boundaries and Expectations – While full consumption play can be incredibly intense and rewarding, both partners need to be clear on what is expected and where the limits are. Make sure he understands his role: to take in everything you give without hesitation.
- Hydration and Diet Considerations – If you plan to include spit, juices, and urine, maintaining hydration is key. Drinking plenty of water and consuming fruit (especially pineapple) can enhance the taste of your fluids.
- Positioning for Complete Control – Whether you prefer forward or reverse facesitting, ensure he has no choice but to accept what you provide. Tying his hands behind his back or using a gag (such as a ring gag) can enhance the experience by keeping his mouth permanently open.
Techniques for Forced Swallowing
Once he’s securely in place, it’s time to train him to take everything—without question.
1. Spit Training – Teaching Him to Drink from You
Spit is an excellent way to introduce forced swallowing. Start slow and build up his tolerance:
- Let a thin strand of saliva drip onto his lips or tongue.
- Watch his reaction—does he automatically swallow, or does he hesitate?
- If he resists, press down with your thighs and demand compliance.
- Increase the amount over time, ensuring he swallows without delay.
- For deeper training, hold his mouth open with your fingers and spit directly into it, keeping eye contact as he takes it all in.
2. Orgasm Feeding – Making Him Drink Your Pleasure
Your orgasm is a gift, and he should consume every drop with gratitude. Whether it’s from direct stimulation, forced licking, or milking, his duty is to swallow everything:
- Smother him completely while he uses his tongue to bring you to climax.
- Keep his face pressed tightly against you, allowing no escape as you release.
- If he struggles to swallow fast enough, use verbal commands to reinforce his role—remind him that his only purpose is to take what you give.
- Once he has consumed everything, have him open his mouth to prove it’s all gone.
3. Urine Play – The Ultimate Test of Submission
For those ready to explore full dominance, introducing urine play reinforces his complete submission. Whether as a form of ownership, humiliation, or devotion, forcing him to drink your golden liquid is the ultimate act of control.
- The Controlled Drip – Sit over his mouth and release slowly, making him drink every drop.
- Full Release – Smother his face completely while relieving yourself, giving him no choice but to swallow.
- Training Through Denial – Use orgasm control as a reward system—he can only cum if he drinks without hesitation.
Enhancing the Experience
If you want to intensify the session, consider these additional elements:
- Restraints – A bound submissive has no option but to take what you give. Consider tying his hands or using a spreader bar to keep him completely vulnerable.
- Gags for Forced Feeding – A ring gag or funnel gag ensures his mouth stays open, making it easy to control the pace of consumption.
- Verbal Domination – Reinforce the power dynamic by reminding him who is in control: “Your mouth exists to take whatever I give.”
- Chastity and Reward Systems – The better he performs, the closer he gets to a ruined or denied orgasm. If he hesitates or disobeys, keep him locked up longer.
Aftercare and Reconnection
Intense dominance sessions require proper aftercare. Even when playing with extreme power dynamics, it’s important to check in:
- Hydrate Him – Give him water to ensure he stays comfortable after extended swallowing.
- Praise and Reassurance – Let him know he pleased you and reinforce his submission with gentle touch or words.
- Discuss Limits for Future Sessions – If you plan to push further next time, talk about any adjustments to ensure ongoing enjoyment.
Training him to swallow everything is one of the most powerful expressions of control in a Femdom relationship. Whether it’s spit, orgasm fluids, or urine, he learns that his body exists for your pleasure, and his only response is obedience. With patience, training, and firm dominance, he will come to crave every drop—because when he’s under you, he has no choice but to drink deep.
A few amplifications / extensions:
I strongly agree with the closing paragraph.
Warning up front: anyone suffering a urinary tract infection, of any cause, cannot participate. Make sure you know.
Consumption is standard procedure in my group. Spit and pussy juices go without saying; so I’ll focus on urine. All can be second nature.
As krissi says, urine is “strong drink,” an acquired taste, not unlike whiskey which many of them didn’t care for when young, choosing beer instead. They grew into it and in a few years preferred whiskey. The same will be true for Ladies’ piss. For a well-trained sub, it’s golden nectar, wine; a perfect celebration of services well done. When my friend, Jeannie, came by Monday morning, she rewarded krissi in just this way before leaving.
So that consumption becomes second nature, drinking must be regular. At our Super Bowl Sunday party, our Hostess locked the downstairs bathrooms. Ladies who needed to piss simply selected a boy and took him to the mud room (has a hard floor so spillage is easily vacuumed and licked up by the slaves) [all the boys (4 of them (2 couldn’t make it)) were treated at evening’s end – because they had all served so well otherwise – to a “nightcap” in the kitchen. They each swallowed a mouthful from each of 6 Ladies; then, because 4 mouthful hardly empties bladders, our hostess had them position, on their backs, head-to-crotch, and we walked, straddling them, from one end of the short string to the other, emptying ourselves and completely wetting them, head-to-toe. They then were flipped, heads-down, and asses-up, to vacuum and lick up everything from the floor, and then clean splatter from our shoes. A couple of the Ladies grabbed floggers from the living room to encourage expedition. (The kitchen was too confined for whips or long canes).
It was a well-deserved conclusion to the boys’ evenings.
Now, a downside to urine is that familiar mens room odor – definitely not fitting for a kitchen, nnot for the matter, any other space in our homes. So, one or more slaves has to scrub any wetted surface afterwards. Linoleum and tile are easy; but, on a wood floor, this must be done expeditiously. Even though varnish SHOULD prevent absorption; joints are penetrated quickly. Once soaked, removing the odor is challenging. We do not piss the boys on hardwood. And carpets? Only if you plan to discard it afterwards. Fine for the Boys to smell for a while – part of their training – to be a the ready urinal that every one of them should be. You decide how far and long you take it.
How reduce spillage? As Mistress Autumn advises:
– Train them to swallow with their mouths open (head laid back – the receptacle position – is more challenging but with regular training I’ve never seen a male not master it). The gags Mistress Autumn suggests are great for this training, or a butterfly gag. He has a natural instinct to close his mouth. The gags prevent this until he overcomes the instinct.
– Mate the pussy firmly to an open mouth. While this is efficient, in groups like mine its fun to use the open mouth as a bucket: stand off a few inches so the audience watches both the stream and his gulping throat. A rush; and arousing!! Make a competition of it: the pass-fail standard: no spillage. He’s got to swallow as fast as you fill your urinal or reap the consequences for appearing ungrateful.
– Have them consume from a container, or glass. I find this too antiseptic unless out to eat at a restaurant where, with imagination, his water glass can be charged with piss. Hint: use what’s become standard today: bisexual “family” bathrooms. Refill his water glass there.
– Create a steady diet of urine by charging ice trays with it: “Pice trays.” The boys iced drinks are then chilled with cubes of frozen urine. In my group, the Ladies keep a tray charged at each of our homes, labeled with our names … its always fair to ask a sub who he is drinking. Trays are charged by filling a subs mouth directly from a pussy then having him push it out through a straw into the tray. Many trays require 4 – 8 mouthfuls. This may seem too slow and unexciting but it prevents spills and possibly lengthy cleanup later. Now, with children or guests around, these cannot be kept in the family freezer and, obviously, there must be another, in a separate room or the garage. To be extra safe, two of our Dommes have padlocks on them,” to protect against “pilferage.” I and others have them in a locked closet or pantry.
A few other points:
– The modern “family restroom” provides a perfect spot in public places to take him and relieve yourself. Again, he should be proficient before you try it because, if not, his wetted clothing will smell – not what you want walking around shops or dining afterward.
– It’s fine to nourish your sub with a bladder-full every day. But think you should not go much beyond this. Your piss is NOT an offset for the amount of water he should be drinking daily.
– The well-trained sub, able to keep his mouth open and swallow in-stride with you, means that you can decide to never use a nasty public restroom again. Nourish him instead.
Haha I never thought about the benefit of piss training “means that you can decide to never use a nasty public restroom again.” That is great!