From Spanks to Orgasms, Make Him Count Every Moment

Let’s be honest: there’s a special kind of joy in making your submissive count during a punishment. It’s not just about the discipline—it’s about control, distraction, and the thrill of watching him squirm as he tries to keep his wits about him under your strict, unrelenting gaze. Counting makes a punishment interactive, and, if done correctly, it can be just as much fun for you as it is mortifying for him.

Let’s dive into the art of making him count, from the giggles to the groans, and see how you can turn this simple task into a masterpiece of dominance and amusement.

Why Make Him Count?

Making him count during punishments isn’t just entertaining; it serves a deeper purpose in your dynamic:

Focus and Obedience: Counting forces him to stay present, reinforcing his submission and obedience.
Mind Games: Adding numbers to the mix distracts him, making it harder for him to brace for the next strike—or the next orgasm.
Humiliation: Losing count or stumbling over numbers gives you the perfect opportunity to tease or scold him.
Control: Whether it’s strokes of a paddle or orgasms given, every number he utters is a reminder of who’s in charge.

Counting During Spankings

Spankings are a classic punishment, and adding a counting element takes them to the next level. Here’s how to keep things fun and fierce:

The Basics

Start with clear instructions. Tell him to count each strike aloud and thank you afterward. For example:

“One, thank you, Mistress.”
“Two, thank you, Mistress.”

If he forgets the “thank you” or gets the number wrong, guess what? You start over. And don’t just start over from one—start over harder.

The Twist

Halfway through, change the rules. Make him count backward or skip every other number. If he hesitates, pause for dramatic effect and remind him: “You’re not just counting. You’re counting for ME. Do it right, or we’ll be here all night.”

Counting Canes, Crops, and Paddles

For more intense punishments, like caning or paddling, counting adds an extra layer of torment. The sharp sting of the cane paired with the humiliation of verbal acknowledgment is a one-two punch of submission.

Scenario: The Perfectionist

Tell him the count must be loud, clear, and with perfect tone. Whispering? Too quiet? Not enough enthusiasm? Start over and make sure he understands how much you value precision.

The “Oops” Factor

Deliberately interrupt him mid-count. Ask a random question like: “What number was that, again?” When he stumbles, sigh dramatically and announce, “Let’s go back to one.” Watch his face fall—it’s priceless.

Making Him Count Your Orgasms

Let’s not forget that punishments aren’t always about pain. Pleasure, especially your pleasure, can be just as effective in asserting control.

The Orgasm Counter

Have him orally worship you or use his hands while counting each orgasm he gives you. If he loses track, he starts over. Imagine his desperation as you sigh, “That was so good, but what number was that again? Oh, you forgot? Back to zero.”

The ‘Almost’ Orgasm Trick

Tease him relentlessly. Just when you’re about to climax, stop and say, “I was close, but not quite. Count that as half.” Watch him try to add fractions to his tally while you enjoy his frustration.

Creative Counting Challenges

Want to add some spice? Here are fun ways to incorporate counting into other punishments:

Chore Counting

Make him count every dish he washes, every shirt he folds, or every corner he scrubs. If he’s too slow or skips a number, he has to redo the task. With a spanking in between, of course.

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) Counting

Attach clothespins to his sensitive areas and have him count each one as you remove them. Slowly. Painfully. And if he misses a number? “Oops, guess that one goes back on.”

Push-Up Punishments

Command him to do push-ups while counting each one aloud. If his form falters, push down on his back with your foot and scold him: “You call that a push-up? That’s barely a one. Start again.”

Advanced Counting for Public or Group Play

If you’ve got a few kinky friends who know about your dynamic, bring them in on the fun. Here’s how:

Public Counting

Take him to a discreet location—a dungeon party, perhaps—and make him count each punishment loud enough for others to hear. The humiliation of an audience will make every number sting just a little more.

Group Counting

Let your friends join in by adding strokes to his punishment. Each friend takes a turn, and he must count their strikes as well. If he forgets who delivered which number? That’s another round for everyone.

Safety Considerations

While counting adds a playful element, always remember:

Pace Yourself: If you’re using impact play, monitor his reactions to ensure he’s not overwhelmed.
Avoid Overexertion: Tasks like push-ups should challenge him but not cause harm.
Clear Communication: Make sure he understands the rules upfront to avoid unnecessary frustration or confusion.

The Fun is in the Fumbles

The beauty of making him count is that it’s an inherently flawed task. Whether he gets flustered, loses his place, or stumbles over his words, his mistakes are part of the joy. And those mistakes? They’re opportunities for you to remind him, yet again, that you’re in control.

So, the next time you’re dishing out punishment, add a little math to the mix. Make him count, make him sweat, and most importantly—make him remember that every stroke, every task, and every orgasm is yours to control.