5 Ways I Plan to Improve as a Submissive Man
by Ishmael | Jul 20, 2026 |
Hello FemdomU. I am very grateful for the opportunity to introduce myself to you all and join this incredible Femdom community. Here are the five ways in which I plan to improve for all of you.
1 – Taking better care of my body. I’m slightly overweight, and I should be eating better and exercising more. After all, my body belongs to the Dommes now, and I wouldn’t want to mistreat their property.
2 – Changing my attitude surrounding submission. I’ve had the attitude of “What can I get out of being submissive?” when I should be thinking “What can I provide in service?” I really need to change that.
3 – Being better about taking pain. Not just in my tolerance, but in my willingness to self-administrate the level of pain required of a FemdomU submissive. I’ve always been incredibly hesitant to actually hurt myself, and I’ve hardly been able to give myself pain that wasn’t surface-level.
4 – Being more prompt with communications. I need to just be better and quicker about responding.
5 – Being more responsible in my personal life. Just being more diligent when it comes personal responsibilities.
welcome to the team buddy! great list, #2 is a super important change of thought process for lots of guys.
Thanks! Yeah, I’m sure it’s going to take some work 🙂
Hey, welcome to FemdomU. These are all great things to work on. Your number four is something I struggle with, but really is important in our virtual domination system to be alert and responsive to the dommes.
Thank you for that. I will be 🙂
Welcome Ismael, we are happy to have you join the crew. I’m sure you will enjoy your time!
Thank you! I already am!
Welcome ishmael. Welcome to FemdomU, I look forward to seeing more of you.
Thank you, Mistress Heather. I look forward to that too.
Welcome Ishmael,
Happy to have another member joining our team, you’ll enjoy your stay here.
Happy to be here! I’m sure I will!
Great name! Ishmael – Hebrew translation is :God will hear
Perhaps we adapt that to “Goddess will hear”
Although, I’d still ask permission to speak first! 🙂
Have fun, welcome to the magazine.
I didn’t know that… but yes, it probably would be best to think of it as “Goddess” 😁
Welcome to FemDomU, great list!
Thank you!
Welcome to FemdomU, Ishmael. I can relate to your second point because I’ve learned the same lesson during my own training. Wishing you all the best, and don’t hesitate to reach out if you ever need any help.
Thank you — that means a lot 🙂
I suspect he picked the name Ishmael because of the famous line, “Call me Ishmael.” I’ve seen it before. Boys with an unhealthy obsession with Moby-Dicks.
Welcome aboard, ishmael. You say you’re nervous, which is probably a good thing. Cocky boys are annoying. Nervous boys usually listen better. Keep doing what you’re told, don’t overthink everything, and maybe we’ll turn you into a decent-looking piece of eye candy for the ladies yet.
Now, check your dashboard for a private command (as soon as it’s approved) and don’t delay.
You’re absolutely right, Miss Autumn, that is why I chose that name (but you already knew that you were right, I’m sure). I’m glad that you approve of my nervousness. Thank you so much for the command, work ran late but I’m getting right to it.
Welcome Ishmael, enjoy every second of it
Thank you — I will!
Welcome, Ishmael!
Thank you, Mistress Meghan.
Welcome Ishmael, you’re going to enjoy the FemDomU community. They are all very welcoming and will help to guide you on your journey. Best, ohtoole
Thank you, I’m glad to hear that. They certainly seem like it!
Welcome to the team!
Thanks!